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Re: Living in a nightmare
      09/02/08 11:46 AM

They wouldn't. It is BS.

Apparently, if the target successfully defends him/herself (by blocking the strike) then the target is no longer the victim of assault.

Or if the target FEELS that he/she knows how to defend him/herself (thus feels little/no fear during your attack), then the target can no longer be a victim of your assault.

IOW, if you went up to Evander Holyfield and launched a barrage of punches, you've in no way assaulted him because he would like block most/all of it and feel no fear of you.

IOW big men who try to capably defend themselves cannot be assaulted. Right.

Or, if he's not nice AFTER your assault of him, then your assault didn't occur.

Or even, if he assaults YOU the next day, then your previous assault of him didn't occur.

Or even, if you assault him and he doesn't assault you, but you "feel" more fear than him, then you're the actual victim, not him.

But, really, it's BS.

If you attack with violence, you're violent. If you do it to your spouse, you're domestically violent. That includes 100% of any women who slap anyone they get pissed off enough. Including YOU, if you've ever done it. Most women I've ever known, do this at some point, to someone. Most try to rationalize it afterwords.

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* Living in a nightmare mullan 08/04/08 02:17 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare DeeCee   08/23/08 09:01 AM
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. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   08/25/08 06:08 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/25/08 05:24 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   08/04/08 10:35 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare momus2   08/30/08 10:27 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   09/02/08 10:55 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare motorboater   09/02/08 11:46 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare almostheaven   09/03/08 01:49 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   09/02/08 12:28 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare momus2   09/02/08 02:48 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare almostheaven   09/03/08 02:04 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare motorboater   09/02/08 06:12 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare motorboater   09/02/08 05:55 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare matart1   09/02/08 04:14 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare I_am_YesDad   09/23/08 07:22 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   09/02/08 03:06 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare almostheaven   09/03/08 02:13 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare motorboater   09/03/08 02:52 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare almostheaven   09/03/08 03:27 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Miranda   09/07/08 09:14 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare almostheaven   09/09/08 01:21 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare rogerisright   09/23/08 06:10 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare rogerisright   09/23/08 06:07 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare momus2   09/02/08 04:29 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   09/02/08 06:15 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare suzynj   08/17/08 12:17 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare mullan   08/04/08 10:49 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare motorboater   08/09/08 07:17 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   08/09/08 10:48 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Relayer   08/09/08 03:20 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   08/04/08 10:58 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/04/08 11:08 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/04/08 10:52 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Relayer   08/04/08 02:23 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Cayteax   08/04/08 02:30 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Relayer   08/04/08 06:45 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare mullan   08/04/08 10:05 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Misslisa1017   08/09/08 10:02 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/04/08 10:14 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare mullan   08/04/08 10:19 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/04/08 10:23 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare mullan   08/04/08 10:25 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/04/08 10:47 PM

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