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Re: Living in a nightmare
      09/02/08 06:12 PM

[quote] I don't believe that most women have slapped someone when they get mad. [/quote]

Perhaps you're right. From my experience, all kids try it out. Most teens continue it. It's all over popular culture and never even blinked at.

Then, unfortunately, some girl tries it with her boyfriend/husband and we have DV on our hands. Especially if he stupidly slaps her back. Most research shows that its pretty close to 50/50 who throws the first punch.

Maybe not MOST people doing it, worldwide. But it really is a common problem. Should be nipped in the bud and isn't at all. It tends to be laughed at and encouraged, what girls should get to do to their husbands if they ever get caught cheating or whatever.

Instead, we have this misconception that men beat the sh1t out of women. When more common than that is men and women both slapping and shoving each other, without a clear "villian" or "victim."

This thread is a pretty good example of that. I doubt this husband is an angel. But still, he's the victim whenever she attacks him.

Besides, it doesn't really matter who's bigger. Floyd Mayweather is shorter and lighter than most female posters on this board. He shouldn't be allowed to assault others, regardless of his dimensions. And neither should you or me.

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* Living in a nightmare mullan 08/04/08 02:17 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare DeeCee   08/23/08 09:01 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare stuckinarut   08/25/08 02:41 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   08/25/08 06:08 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/25/08 05:24 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   08/04/08 10:35 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare momus2   08/30/08 10:27 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   09/02/08 10:55 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare motorboater   09/02/08 11:46 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare almostheaven   09/03/08 01:49 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   09/02/08 12:28 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare momus2   09/02/08 02:48 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare almostheaven   09/03/08 02:04 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare motorboater   09/02/08 06:12 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare motorboater   09/02/08 05:55 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare matart1   09/02/08 04:14 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare I_am_YesDad   09/23/08 07:22 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   09/02/08 03:06 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare almostheaven   09/03/08 02:13 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare motorboater   09/03/08 02:52 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare almostheaven   09/03/08 03:27 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Miranda   09/07/08 09:14 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare almostheaven   09/09/08 01:21 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare rogerisright   09/23/08 06:10 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare rogerisright   09/23/08 06:07 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare momus2   09/02/08 04:29 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   09/02/08 06:15 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare suzynj   08/17/08 12:17 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare mullan   08/04/08 10:49 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare motorboater   08/09/08 07:17 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   08/09/08 10:48 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Relayer   08/09/08 03:20 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   08/04/08 10:58 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/04/08 11:08 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/04/08 10:52 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Relayer   08/04/08 02:23 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Cayteax   08/04/08 02:30 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Relayer   08/04/08 06:45 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare mullan   08/04/08 10:05 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Misslisa1017   08/09/08 10:02 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/04/08 10:14 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare mullan   08/04/08 10:19 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/04/08 10:23 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare mullan   08/04/08 10:25 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/04/08 10:47 PM

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