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Re: Nope...
      09/24/08 01:39 PM

[quote]It's when you yank on their choke chain that it becomes abuse. Good thing hubby's never complained when I do that. LOL [/quote]

I'm not sure I understand what you're saying. It almost sounds as if you're placing some blame on the victims. I do NOTHING to provoke him. N-O-T-H-I-N-G. Of course, it's always hind site that helps me understand what set him off (i.e. the texting I detailed was 3 days after he had to pay off the credit card because he holds all the money). He was obviously Pissed that he could not get me to pay it (he's court ordered to do so and if I could simply divide in half the joint funds right now, I'd happily pay it!) So the texting was punishment for me since he was made to follow the rules. That's not exactly yanking his chain. I had nothing to do with it - it was all done by his lawyer - his lawyer made him follow the rules.

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