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Re: Relayer ----
      09/24/08 01:51 PM

Well, if you're not going to try to take the kids or money from him because he's a jerk in txt and the phone, then do this:

1. keep all the txt and email and mail so far to document your case
2. get a digital recorder and attach it to your phone. Record the convos. If you live in a two party state, tell him you will record the convos. That should be enough to shape him up right there.
3. block his txt and phone #. Or screen.
4. don't have conversations with him outside of email. Not one word. But be decent in email regardless of what he does.
5. get good at ignoring the "noise" in his email
6. let him know that each txt, letter, or phone convo will go to court to hold him in contempt for noncooperation, etc. He'll lose because of your strongly documented case and pay all legal fees.
7. if he persists or pusues you in person or forces his way into your home or whatever, he's harassing you and treat him like the criminal he is.

The law will help if you do need an RO and have proof; ROs are easy to get even when not deserved. If you deserve one and use it appropriately, go for it if necessary.

Again, not all claims are false and not all ROs are misused. Just that 1st claim holding more credence than counterclaims is a problem since mutual abuse is more common than one-sided, attaching settlement rewards to ANY claims is a problem, and err'ing on the side of "victim women/victimizing men" is a problem.

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* Men now you can harness the power of VAWA !!! rogerisright 08/12/08 02:39 AM
. * * Re: Men now you can harness the power of VAWA !!! Relayer   08/12/08 11:29 AM
. * * Re: Men now you can harness the power of VAWA !!! javajunkiee   08/16/08 07:10 AM
. * * Re: Men now you can harness the power of VAWA !!! Relayer   08/18/08 06:07 PM
. * * Relayer ---- javajunkiee   08/18/08 08:19 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- Relayer   08/19/08 11:42 AM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- almostheaven   08/21/08 07:38 AM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- motorboater   08/21/08 11:06 AM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- almostheaven   08/22/08 06:48 AM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- nolonger   09/15/08 12:35 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- BeckaLeigh   09/22/08 09:36 AM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- almostheaven   09/23/08 06:45 AM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- BeckaLeigh   09/23/08 08:46 AM
. * * Nope... almostheaven   09/24/08 01:24 PM
. * * Re: Nope... nolonger   09/24/08 01:39 PM
. * * Re: Nope... almostheaven   09/24/08 02:36 PM
. * * Re: Nope... motorboater   09/24/08 01:54 PM
. * * Re: Nope... nolonger   09/24/08 03:04 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- nolonger   09/22/08 01:45 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- googledad   09/22/08 10:42 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- BeckaLeigh   09/22/08 03:40 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- rogerisright   09/22/08 04:04 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- motorboater   09/22/08 10:38 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- BeckaLeigh   09/22/08 04:52 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- motorboater   09/22/08 02:36 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- nolonger   09/23/08 01:44 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- motorboater   09/23/08 04:05 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- nolonger   09/23/08 05:00 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- motorboater   09/23/08 10:29 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- nolonger   09/24/08 11:12 AM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- motorboater   09/24/08 01:51 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- nolonger   09/24/08 03:08 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- motorboater   09/15/08 01:10 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- javajunkiee   08/19/08 09:44 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- Relayer   08/20/08 06:56 AM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- javajunkiee   08/20/08 08:01 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- rogerisright   08/19/08 04:48 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- Relayer   08/19/08 08:23 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- txks1151   09/18/08 03:29 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- nolonger   09/21/08 09:32 AM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- motorboater   09/21/08 10:01 AM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- I_am_YesDad   09/21/08 10:52 AM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- nolonger   09/21/08 11:45 AM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- motorboater   09/21/08 11:07 PM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- ESP   09/21/08 11:57 AM
. * * Re: Relayer ---- Relayer   08/19/08 08:50 PM
. * * Re: Men now you can harness the power of VAWA !!! motorboater   08/16/08 08:43 AM
. * * Re: Men now you can harness the power of VAWA !!! rogerisright   08/19/08 04:57 PM

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