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NanV58
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Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES

11/27/04 05:15 PM

Thanks for the input thus far. My lawyer, asked me to contact her on Monday but I emailed her right before Thanksgiving to tell her that I am requesting receipts and such on his submitted expenses. When this problem first arose two years ago, she advised me to wait until expenses built up as it was not worth it to bring him to court over a few hundred dollars. I have heeded her advice and only wish a more equitable way of determining child costs could have been settled long before this. For two years I have continued to provide what our children needed without my ex's support. Since the ex has two step children and a new wife I wouldn't be surprised if some of the items listed were for them. The situation is further complicated because our older son who will enter high school next year has been enrolled in a private school for learning disabilities from grades 1-8. Despite teacher and medical recommendations that he apply to private schools, Dad will not even remotely entertain the idea. I looked forward to the day that he entered high school and we could save on tuition to prepare for college. Now, I am not sure that a public school is the right place for him and I am willing to foot the entire bill if I have to. I feel I at least have the right to ask that he equally contribute to regular maintenance. Does anyone have insight into the change in 50/50 physical placement and how that might affect child support? I am not looking to change visitation in any way but the fact remains that for the past year and continuing into the present, the boys are in my custody at least 60% of the time.
Thank you for your answers.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	NanV58	11/27/04 08:44 AM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	Gecko	12/01/04 01:55 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	NanV58	12/01/04 03:18 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	Gecko	12/01/04 05:08 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	NanV58	12/01/04 05:17 PM
This is exactly why	Melody	11/27/04 09:02 PM
Why should there be ANY support?	gr8Dad	11/27/04 09:09 PM
Re: Why should there be ANY support?	NanV58	11/27/04 09:46 PM
You should really try READING...	gr8Dad	11/27/04 11:04 PM
Re: You should really try READING...	NanV58	11/28/04 09:03 AM
Re: You should really try READING...	NanV58	11/28/04 09:08 AM
One quick question Nan...	gr8Dad	11/28/04 04:05 PM
Re: One quick question Nan...	NanV58	11/28/04 06:57 PM
The point is...	gr8Dad	11/28/04 07:06 PM
Re: The point is...	NanV58	11/28/04 08:09 PM
Nav....just a question for me please	Melody	11/28/04 08:42 PM
Re: Nav....just a question for me please	NanV58	11/28/04 10:05 PM
Well...nothing personal...	Melody	11/29/04 01:42 AM
From what I gathered...	gr8Dad	11/28/04 09:16 PM
Re: From what I gathered...	NanV58	11/28/04 10:37 PM
Re: The point is...	aussie928	11/28/04 07:13 PM
Guess what mate...	gr8Dad	11/28/04 07:31 PM
Re: Guess what mate...	aussie928	11/29/04 12:47 PM
I have posted it here before...	gr8Dad	11/29/04 05:51 PM
Re: I have posted it here before...	aussie928	11/29/04 06:11 PM
Not to mention...	almostheaven	11/29/04 08:12 PM
Do YOU read it before you post it?	gr8Dad	11/29/04 06:22 PM
Re: Do YOU read it before you post it?	aussie928	11/29/04 06:36 PM
Re: Do YOU read it before you post it?	aussie928	11/29/04 06:32 PM
The fact that you would...	gr8Dad	11/29/04 06:41 PM
No Gr8Dad...	Eric	12/02/04 11:22 AM
Bite on this. . .	tjonzen420	12/03/04 12:32 AM
Re: Bite on this. . .	aussie928	12/04/04 05:14 PM
No, really, how do you feel?	gr8Dad	12/04/04 02:35 AM
Re: No, really, how do you feel?	tjonzen420	12/04/04 10:49 PM
Love the names!!!!	Melody	12/04/04 01:08 AM
Then you'll adore this....	almostheaven	12/04/04 09:59 AM
Don't be sorry...	almostheaven	12/03/04 09:02 AM
Re: No Gr8Dad...	aussie928	12/02/04 01:18 PM
Re: The fact that you would...	aussie928	11/29/04 08:03 PM
Re: The fact that you would...	aussie928	11/29/04 07:39 PM
Re: Guess what mate...	almostheaven	11/29/04 01:26 PM
Why do you think it is funny?	gr8Dad	11/29/04 05:53 PM
You're so predictable...	almostheaven	11/29/04 08:14 PM
Ah, the TRUE "AlmostHell"...	gr8Dad	11/29/04 08:20 PM
Re: Ah, the TRUE "AlmostHell"...	almostheaven	11/29/04 08:41 PM
Ah jeez, you guys	Melody	11/29/04 08:45 PM
Re: Ah jeez, you guys	aussie928	11/29/04 09:56 PM
Sorry, Aussie	Melody	11/29/04 10:36 PM
Re: Melody's Right	Diane67	11/30/04 11:50 AM
Back to topic on 50/50 and shared bills	NanV58	11/30/04 03:14 PM
Yours is pretty unique, Nan	Melody	11/30/04 07:59 PM
Re: Why do you think it is funny?	aussie928	11/29/04 06:14 PM
No, I hold women to the same standard...	gr8Dad	11/29/04 06:23 PM
I don't care what other....	Eric	11/29/04 06:28 PM
Re: I don't care what other....	Onyx	11/30/04 03:58 AM
Re: Guess what mate...	aussie928	11/29/04 10:08 AM
More "double talk"	Eric	11/29/04 10:45 AM
Re: More "double talk"	Onyx	11/29/04 02:53 PM
Stopping dissing...	almostheaven	11/29/04 05:03 PM
LMAO!	Melody	11/29/04 06:45 PM
Re: More "double talk"	aussie928	11/29/04 12:30 PM
Do you read what you write?...	almostheaven	11/29/04 09:06 AM
Re: Do you read what you write?...	NanV58	11/29/04 05:06 PM
Re: Do you read what you write?...	aussie928	11/29/04 06:22 PM
Re: You should really try READING...	Onyx	11/28/04 09:23 AM
Re: You should really try READING...	Onyx	11/28/04 08:06 AM
Re: Why should there be ANY support?	aussie928	11/27/04 10:36 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	Onyx	11/27/04 12:18 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	NanV58	11/27/04 05:15 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	aussie928	11/27/04 08:49 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	NanV58	11/27/04 09:03 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	Onyx	11/28/04 08:09 AM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	Gryph	11/27/04 10:37 AM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	Eric	11/27/04 07:01 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	Onyx	11/27/04 10:29 PM
Re: LEGITIMACY OF EXPENSES	Onyx	11/27/04 10:26 PM
What are YOUR expenses?	gr8Dad	11/27/04 09:10 AM

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