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Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*
      11/29/08 11:00 PM

Yes Dad I agree with the theory of "verbal"abuse not being abuse, but the reality of it is that verbal abuse can be as damaging as the actual physical abuse. That is how my stbx keep me and our children in line and if I "fell out of line" then I would get the physical abuse even worse . If you have someone towering over you and telling you what they would or could do to you ,beleive me it is as bad having them pound on you, it is all the same fear from the same source.I know because I lived with both for 23 years and the older he got the less he actually hit me but he made sure the threat stay alive and it was hell living everyday with the looming cloud of doom over my head knowing he could go physco at any time over any issue. The last time was in Feb (this year) and it was all over me taking our son to sub way and spending less then $12.00 while stbx was at the bar.
Now as for nolonger, I think you are abusing the court system and unless there is more to the story then you have exsplained you should stop using the abused card and leave your children out of it and just be a parent to them and deal with the x on your own....

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* The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger 11/19/08 04:14 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* BeckaLeigh   12/02/08 10:31 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* sally1234   12/02/08 10:38 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* BeckaLeigh   12/02/08 02:07 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/02/08 10:56 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* BeckaLeigh   12/03/08 12:10 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Yes_Dad   11/23/08 05:34 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   11/23/08 10:22 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Yes_Dad   11/28/08 05:09 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   11/29/08 05:11 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* CrapStinks   12/02/08 02:51 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/02/08 09:55 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/02/08 09:57 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* rizzinstl   12/02/08 10:24 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* FRFather   12/02/08 10:43 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* FRFather   12/02/08 10:11 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/02/08 01:29 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* GBFather   12/02/08 01:46 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/02/08 01:41 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/01/08 03:19 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/04/08 08:59 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/04/08 10:53 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* IMissThem2   12/04/08 11:28 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/04/08 11:54 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/06/08 01:46 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/07/08 10:43 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/08/08 02:44 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/08/08 08:36 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/09/08 03:42 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* BeckaLeigh   12/09/08 12:23 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/09/08 02:55 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/10/08 12:26 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* WYFather   12/10/08 12:44 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/10/08 02:43 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/11/08 10:34 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* BeckaLeigh   12/11/08 10:52 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/11/08 10:27 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/15/08 08:02 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/17/08 02:05 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/17/08 07:35 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/18/08 01:21 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* NCPadre   12/18/08 01:37 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/16/08 12:53 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/16/08 10:46 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* EOP   12/06/08 03:02 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Maury   12/06/08 03:21 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* IHatefPIGS   12/06/08 03:28 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Maury   12/06/08 04:04 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* IHatefPIGS   12/06/08 04:14 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Maury   12/06/08 04:16 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* IHatefPIGS   12/06/08 04:17 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* JBGuud   12/04/08 09:18 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* almostheaven   12/01/08 08:19 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* CrapStinks   12/01/08 09:59 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* javajunkiee   12/01/08 05:38 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Yes_Dad   11/29/08 07:07 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/01/08 12:30 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nannygoat   11/29/08 11:00 PM
. * * There would be recourse... almostheaven   11/20/08 06:52 AM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... Yes_Dad   11/20/08 06:39 PM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... nolonger   11/20/08 08:41 AM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... Yes_Dad   12/06/08 04:53 PM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... NofPigs   12/06/08 04:56 PM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... finz   12/07/08 04:45 AM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... AKFather   12/07/08 08:11 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Maury   11/19/08 10:03 PM

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