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Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*
      12/01/08 03:19 PM

[quote]Nothing you have described is DV.

Do you have a courrt order barring your D12 from entering your home ? If not, then a court order was not broken when your daughter entered your home (with the code that , presumably, you gave her !)

Is the divorce final ? If not, why don't you go to the marital home and get your stuff ? [/quote]

I didn't say it was domestic violence. It's domestic abuse. I did go to the marital home to get my stuff. It's no longer there! That was the question - what do I do about that?

Truth is, I asked that question 3 abuse incidents ago. I've got bigger problems now and stuff is just stuff. I can let that go.

For now, though, I refuse to live my life with constant (twice daily) harassing text messages and emails that require simple yes or no answers that are filled with hate and rage not only against me, but my mother, brother, dad, sister. Sure, a simple answer would be to ignore it and for the most part I do. But when the problem is trying to schedule Christmas visitation, I am forced to read through all that crap just to be able to negotiate the holiday! I should not have to do that. Especially when this man has previously threatened to drown me in a toilet - a crime a man up here was recently convicted for killing his wife. I take verbal assaults very seriously. I'm sure the dead wife was previously threatened verbally and no one took her seriously either.

I wish society would get their head out of their asses.

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* The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger 11/19/08 04:14 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* BeckaLeigh   12/02/08 10:31 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* sally1234   12/02/08 10:38 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* BeckaLeigh   12/02/08 02:07 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/02/08 10:56 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* BeckaLeigh   12/03/08 12:10 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Yes_Dad   11/23/08 05:34 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   11/23/08 10:22 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Yes_Dad   11/28/08 05:09 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   11/29/08 05:11 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* CrapStinks   12/02/08 02:51 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/02/08 09:55 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/02/08 09:57 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* rizzinstl   12/02/08 10:24 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* FRFather   12/02/08 10:43 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* FRFather   12/02/08 10:11 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/02/08 01:29 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* GBFather   12/02/08 01:46 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/02/08 01:41 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/01/08 03:19 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/04/08 08:59 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/04/08 10:53 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* IMissThem2   12/04/08 11:28 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/04/08 11:54 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/06/08 01:46 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/07/08 10:43 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/08/08 02:44 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/08/08 08:36 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/09/08 03:42 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* BeckaLeigh   12/09/08 12:23 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/09/08 02:55 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/10/08 12:26 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* WYFather   12/10/08 12:44 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/10/08 02:43 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/11/08 10:34 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* BeckaLeigh   12/11/08 10:52 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/11/08 10:27 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/15/08 08:02 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/17/08 02:05 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/17/08 07:35 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/18/08 01:21 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* NCPadre   12/18/08 01:37 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/16/08 12:53 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/16/08 10:46 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* EOP   12/06/08 03:02 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Maury   12/06/08 03:21 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* IHatefPIGS   12/06/08 03:28 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Maury   12/06/08 04:04 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* IHatefPIGS   12/06/08 04:14 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Maury   12/06/08 04:16 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* IHatefPIGS   12/06/08 04:17 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* JBGuud   12/04/08 09:18 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* almostheaven   12/01/08 08:19 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* CrapStinks   12/01/08 09:59 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* javajunkiee   12/01/08 05:38 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Yes_Dad   11/29/08 07:07 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/01/08 12:30 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nannygoat   11/29/08 11:00 PM
. * * There would be recourse... almostheaven   11/20/08 06:52 AM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... Yes_Dad   11/20/08 06:39 PM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... nolonger   11/20/08 08:41 AM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... Yes_Dad   12/06/08 04:53 PM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... NofPigs   12/06/08 04:56 PM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... finz   12/07/08 04:45 AM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... AKFather   12/07/08 08:11 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Maury   11/19/08 10:03 PM

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