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Re: Relocation Restriction????
      12/03/08 11:40 AM

"She is a good mom when she is there to care for the kids."

Maybe there is a chance then that she won't pursue relocation? In all honesty there was a time I wanted to relocate too. I have no family in my area, we were barely making ends meet and I felt a great need for a support network that I didn't have. I honestly believed all of those things would make the kids life better. What changed my mind is realizing what it would be like for them to be away from one of us for extended periods. I knew I didn't want to be that parent and in the end I couldn't ask their father to be either. Hopefully your x will come to the same realization before it gets much further.

I see now how much my youngest daughter misses by not having her daddy close by. That is a simple matter of us not living close to each other. No one moved and we do the best we can but I can see how much she misses by not getting to be "daddy's little girl" on a daily basis. She's not hurting or wanting for anything and probably doesn't miss what she's never had (she's only 14 months) but I'm sad for her. Her dad doesn't get to see the way her face lights up when he calls or we call him and I put the phone by her ear. She knows his voice. She "talks" to him and calls him "da-dee" and offers phone kisses but it's just not the same.

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* Relocation Restriction???? Bulldog99 11/25/08 11:00 AM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Debi   11/26/08 10:48 PM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Bulldog99   12/01/08 08:35 AM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Yes_Dad   12/01/08 09:53 AM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Bulldog99   12/01/08 11:49 AM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Buckeye   12/02/08 02:15 AM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Yes_Dad   12/02/08 01:09 PM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? NEFather   12/02/08 04:23 PM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Bulldog99   12/02/08 05:10 AM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Debi   12/03/08 11:40 AM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Bulldog99   12/03/08 12:12 PM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Debi   12/03/08 01:45 PM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Gestalt   12/12/08 09:08 AM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Debi   12/13/08 06:14 PM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? MeanGirlsRCrass   12/16/08 11:02 PM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Bulldog99   12/23/08 05:11 AM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Yes_Dad   12/23/08 06:49 AM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Buckeye   12/02/08 06:32 AM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Bulldog99   12/02/08 08:06 AM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Gestalt   11/25/08 11:10 AM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Bulldog99   11/25/08 11:18 AM
. * * Re: Relocation Restriction???? Gestalt   11/25/08 12:05 PM

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