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nolonger
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Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*

12/09/08 02:55 PM

Writing the question of what can I do about a violation of a court order in an abuse forum has come up more than once here. Without knowing my background nor my arm-chair expertise on verbal and emotional abuse there have been many assumptions made. I admit, I was unclear in my writing. Sorry for that. I keep a journal that is about 200 pages long and almost 3 years old. I forget what I write and where.

I'm done being bashed here for my poor judgement made in desperation to get an answer from X. An answer I still have not gotten, btw, even through the lawyers.

The question always was and remains as simple as pie "What can I do about it", and the answer is always clearly "nothing" as stated in the title of this thread.

My little vent here has turned into ugly bashing on both sides. For my part in it, I am sorry. I was frustrated to begin with and got more frustrated as it went on. Yes, I bashed because it felt good but I was also making a point. Sorry if the truth hurts. I know how you feel because your truths about me hurt as well. What hurts more is being invalidated in an abuse forum.

I'd love to publish the 200 pages of specific examples of the many different kinds of emotional abuse I have suffered. Who has time for that? For now, in the future, I beg you to give me the benefit of the doubt. I may post another question or vent about something else. Please know that what I "over react" to is not an over reaction at all. It is a reaction to the amount of abuse I continue to suffer. Little things that seem unimportant to you are merely straws on this camel's back.

I try to take each incident and force consequences on X to make him stop. Yet each incident in and of itself is never enough to bother the courts with.

All I want is a way to make the abuse stop. Divorce was not enough. Divorce made the abuse worse.

How is it that a 44 year old man can get away with such arrogance. He acts as if laws and court orders do not pertain to him and goes about his business texting, emailing and call me up screaming at me - all unprovoked.

Something is seriously wrong with the system. However, knowing that the system is made up of people with opinions such as those expressed here, it's no wonder I continue to suffer.

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The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	11/19/08 04:14 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	BeckaLeigh	12/02/08 10:31 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	sally1234	12/02/08 10:38 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	BeckaLeigh	12/02/08 02:07 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	12/02/08 10:56 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	BeckaLeigh	12/03/08 12:10 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	Yes_Dad	11/23/08 05:34 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	11/23/08 10:22 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	Yes_Dad	11/28/08 05:09 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	finz	11/29/08 05:11 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	CrapStinks	12/02/08 02:51 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	12/02/08 09:55 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	12/02/08 09:57 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	rizzinstl	12/02/08 10:24 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	FRFather	12/02/08 10:43 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	FRFather	12/02/08 10:11 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	12/02/08 01:29 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	GBFather	12/02/08 01:46 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	12/02/08 01:41 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	12/01/08 03:19 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	finz	12/04/08 08:59 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	12/04/08 10:53 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	IMissThem2	12/04/08 11:28 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	12/04/08 11:54 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	finz	12/06/08 01:46 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	12/07/08 10:43 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	finz	12/08/08 02:44 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	12/08/08 08:36 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	finz	12/09/08 03:42 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	BeckaLeigh	12/09/08 12:23 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	12/09/08 02:55 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	finz	12/10/08 12:26 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	WYFather	12/10/08 12:44 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	12/10/08 02:43 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	finz	12/11/08 10:34 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	BeckaLeigh	12/11/08 10:52 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	12/11/08 10:27 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	finz	12/15/08 08:02 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	finz	12/17/08 02:05 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	12/17/08 07:35 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	finz	12/18/08 01:21 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	NCPadre	12/18/08 01:37 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	12/16/08 12:53 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	12/16/08 10:46 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	EOP	12/06/08 03:02 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	Maury	12/06/08 03:21 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	IHatefPIGS	12/06/08 03:28 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	Maury	12/06/08 04:04 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	IHatefPIGS	12/06/08 04:14 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	Maury	12/06/08 04:16 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	IHatefPIGS	12/06/08 04:17 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	JBGuud	12/04/08 09:18 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	almostheaven	12/01/08 08:19 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	CrapStinks	12/01/08 09:59 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	javajunkiee	12/01/08 05:38 PM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	Yes_Dad	11/29/08 07:07 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nolonger	12/01/08 12:30 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	nannygoat	11/29/08 11:00 PM
There would be recourse...	almostheaven	11/20/08 06:52 AM
Re: There would be recourse...	Yes_Dad	11/20/08 06:39 PM
Re: There would be recourse...	nolonger	11/20/08 08:41 AM
Re: There would be recourse...	Yes_Dad	12/06/08 04:53 PM
Re: There would be recourse...	NofPigs	12/06/08 04:56 PM
Re: There would be recourse...	finz	12/07/08 04:45 AM
Re: There would be recourse...	AKFather	12/07/08 08:11 AM
Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*	Maury	11/19/08 10:03 PM

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