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BeckaLeigh
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Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F*
      12/11/08 10:52 AM

I was going to point that out, but it seems like once she gets her teeth into she's right/we're wrong, it doesn't do any good.


And men aren't the only ones who call names and twist words. Women do it, probably more than men, because we analyze things and read more into it alot, IMO. We are more emotional usually, therefore, we react with emotion. Men tend not to. At least the ones I have dealt with. They take alot of stuff at face value and don't dig.

And saying you are a victim of abuse is not going to garner you any sympathy. You need to put your big girl panties on and deal with it. Alot of us have gone through far worse for far longer without it being our faults and we dealt with it. If you wallow in selp-pity, you will never get help. I am not saying any of this to be mean or sarcastic. It is merely the truth as *I* see it. As *I* lived it. I have scars, mental and physical ones, and they are now merely learning experiences. That is how I deal with it. Not saying it is the right way, or the best way, just the easiest way for me to do it. Abuse is thrown out way too easily as an action when it is being turned into just another word by it's meaning being abused.

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* The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger 11/19/08 04:14 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* BeckaLeigh   12/02/08 10:31 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* sally1234   12/02/08 10:38 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* BeckaLeigh   12/02/08 02:07 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/02/08 10:56 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* BeckaLeigh   12/03/08 12:10 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Yes_Dad   11/23/08 05:34 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   11/23/08 10:22 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Yes_Dad   11/28/08 05:09 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   11/29/08 05:11 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* CrapStinks   12/02/08 02:51 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/02/08 09:55 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/02/08 09:57 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* rizzinstl   12/02/08 10:24 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* FRFather   12/02/08 10:43 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* FRFather   12/02/08 10:11 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/02/08 01:29 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* GBFather   12/02/08 01:46 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/02/08 01:41 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/01/08 03:19 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/04/08 08:59 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/04/08 10:53 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* IMissThem2   12/04/08 11:28 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/04/08 11:54 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/06/08 01:46 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/07/08 10:43 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/08/08 02:44 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/08/08 08:36 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/09/08 03:42 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* BeckaLeigh   12/09/08 12:23 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/09/08 02:55 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/10/08 12:26 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* WYFather   12/10/08 12:44 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/10/08 02:43 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/11/08 10:34 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* BeckaLeigh   12/11/08 10:52 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/11/08 10:27 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/15/08 08:02 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/17/08 02:05 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/17/08 07:35 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* finz   12/18/08 01:21 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* NCPadre   12/18/08 01:37 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/16/08 12:53 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/16/08 10:46 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* EOP   12/06/08 03:02 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Maury   12/06/08 03:21 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* IHatefPIGS   12/06/08 03:28 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Maury   12/06/08 04:04 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* IHatefPIGS   12/06/08 04:14 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Maury   12/06/08 04:16 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* IHatefPIGS   12/06/08 04:17 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* JBGuud   12/04/08 09:18 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* almostheaven   12/01/08 08:19 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* CrapStinks   12/01/08 09:59 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* javajunkiee   12/01/08 05:38 PM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Yes_Dad   11/29/08 07:07 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nolonger   12/01/08 12:30 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* nannygoat   11/29/08 11:00 PM
. * * There would be recourse... almostheaven   11/20/08 06:52 AM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... Yes_Dad   11/20/08 06:39 PM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... nolonger   11/20/08 08:41 AM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... Yes_Dad   12/06/08 04:53 PM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... NofPigs   12/06/08 04:56 PM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... finz   12/07/08 04:45 AM
. * * Re: There would be recourse... AKFather   12/07/08 08:11 AM
. * * Re: The latest incident - what can I do? Nothing. F* Maury   11/19/08 10:03 PM

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