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rizzinstl
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Re: I just had to share
      12/11/08 11:31 AM

First off why so mean? I am in therpy from the advice of my doctor and lawyer. Yes we dated for 3years before we got married. Did I know he had some bagage? Yes. Did I ask? Yes. But only got his side of the story. How he was wronged by two other women. He had me feel sorry for him. I fell for it. I've been married for 9 years. I talked to his 2nd x last year. She told me to get out and that it is not me and that she prayed for me. She told me she was scared to death of him. I knew he had children, but at the time they live in Germany with their Mother who had remarried. I did not know the details,with the exception of what he told me. I cant talk to his first wife, because she killed herself 10 years ago. I have not had much contact with his daughter untill the last two years or so. I was going on what he told me.
To answer the question of why I married him. He was not who he is now.

Again...this site is rough! I am not here for ppl to judge why I married him....I have to live with this everyday, and so do my poor 2 sons who listen to his foul mouth calling me a C-word and Pig and watching him choke me. Come on. Could we all not be asking the same question of everyone here, as to why we married the person we did and found we want to get out?

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* I just had to share rizzinstl 12/10/08 10:44 PM
. * * Re: I just had to share Misslisa1017   12/11/08 01:36 PM
. * * Re: I just had to share Misslisa1017   12/11/08 01:46 PM
. * * Re: I just had to share rizzinstl   12/11/08 01:45 PM
. * * Re: I just had to share Misslisa1017   12/11/08 01:47 PM
. * * Re: I just had to share Yes_Dad   12/11/08 05:53 AM
. * * Re: I just had to share rizzinstl   12/11/08 09:25 AM
. * * Re: I just had to share Yes_Dad   12/12/08 07:00 AM
. * * Re: I just had to share almostheaven   12/12/08 10:27 AM
. * * Re: I just had to share Yes_Dad   12/13/08 02:23 PM
. * * Re: I just had to share javajunkiee   12/14/08 12:19 PM
. * * "Two letters for you. OJ" ROFL! (eom) almostheaven   12/16/08 08:34 AM
. * * Re: I just had to share Yes_Dad   12/14/08 02:04 PM
. * * Re: I just had to share almostheaven   12/16/08 08:36 AM
. * * Re: I just had to share googledad   12/16/08 09:10 AM
. * * Re: I just had to share almostheaven   12/16/08 09:22 AM
. * * Re: I just had to share NCPadre   12/18/08 02:39 PM
. * * Re: I just had to share javajunkiee   12/14/08 03:17 PM
. * * Re: I just had to share Yes_Dad   12/15/08 05:15 PM
. * * Re: I just had to share almostheaven   12/16/08 08:45 AM
. * * Re: I just had to share rizzinstl   12/12/08 07:55 AM
. * * Re: I just had to share almostheaven   12/12/08 10:33 AM
. * * Re: I just had to share almostheaven   12/11/08 02:18 PM
. * * Re: I just had to share Screwed   12/11/08 10:48 AM
. * * Re: I just had to share rizzinstl   12/11/08 11:31 AM
. * * Re: I just had to share AKFather   12/11/08 03:28 AM

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