kotabear
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Re: Feeling like I'm 17 again!!
12/15/08 05:45 PM
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You do make a good point, that Mr. Right will be better then Mr. Right Now. This guy is a Mr. Right Now, if he wasn't he would so more intrest in me.
Yet the LONELNIESS of divorce and not having anyone get's to a person and then when you have a whim to be a 17 year old you act on it.
I will think and step back and look more clearly when the next situation arises were a fling may happen, no matter how lonely and how much it will suck not to act on it.
As for being the village physco he's not, I live in a VERY rural area, and I think I would have heard by now. HOWEVER you never know what people do behind closed doors. Trust me I should know about behind and in front of the door.
So thank you Auntie, for being a fuddy-duddy, as much fun as a fling would be, and man it would be sooooo fun! I know that it wuouldn't be as rewarding as the really deal.
Take Care,
Kota
P.S.
Speakin of the X. 4 weeks and he finally called yesterday, drunk! JEEZ Then he called yet again today saying how much he missed the kids and I, how sorry he was for everything, yada yada yada. Boy did I lay into him, I told him that I am not his wife or mother anymore and if he wants to know about his kids then he needs to call. That I am not keeping the kids away from him, yet if he wants to visit (and not a over night visit- I'm talkin a couple hours visit) that he needs to ask. I also let him know that he can only help/change himself, that he has to be his own true love and best friend, if he want's to make it in life, that finding a "entertainment friend" will not make the loneliness go away (Guess that's what I am doing with the fling thing?huh) But anyway I did let him know were I stood on issues with the kids, me, and the house. I don't know if it sunk in his head, I don't think much does, but it made me feel better to say my peace. That's all I have to say about that~ till next time take care all!!!
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