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Re: New here- Need to find the strength to stay away
      12/20/08 10:35 PM

Hey there. Glad to hear that you are moving forward. It's all very hard to comprehend when you are in an abusive situation. Everything is so constantly negative and comes from so many different directions, that I know it's all very hard to wrap you head (and heart) around.

But, now that you have removed yourself from the abusive situation, it's easier to start putting some of the pieces together. You may never make sense of it all, but you can see things more clearly, for what they really are, once you are out and not living with an abuser. I'm glad to hear that you and your daughter are seeking couseling. That will help tremendously- and they will help you with the next steps.

Just keep in mind that things will get better with time. Protect yourself and daughter, and know that he will not change. If you knew that leaving was the right thing to do, you've done it, and now your focus should be on the safety and recovery necessary for you and your daughter.

Take care and keep your chin up. You are doing the next right thing!

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* New here- Need to find the strength to stay away blueskies 12/19/08 07:54 PM
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. * * Re: New here- Need to find the strength to stay away finz   12/20/08 03:57 PM
. * * Re: New here- Need to find the strength to stay away finz   12/20/08 04:00 PM
. * * Re: New here- Need to find the strength to stay away AUDad   12/20/08 04:01 PM
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. * * Re: New here- Need to find the strength to stay away single_someday   12/30/08 09:04 PM
. * * Re: New here- Need to find the strength to stay away misskryss   01/07/09 07:00 PM
. * * Re: New here- Need to find the strength to stay away shortmarriage   12/20/08 10:35 PM
. * * Re: New here- Need to find the strength to stay away Superman   12/20/08 10:43 PM
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