jennimarie
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Re: Divorcing a Narcissist
01/20/09 07:15 PM
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Wow, I am not sure if I really want to reply with this crowd. Yall are tough. Is this what I get to look forward too as this whole messy divorce thing unfolds? (That was a joke...sorda)
I am pretty sure my x is a narcissist. This will be the 6th time in 12 years he has left me for a "replacement." Always the same too, some chick he met on the internet, and now he is convinced she is his "soul mate." His last chance at true happiness because me and the kids have only ever held him back. He took all of our money and left me with 50 bucks. (and the kids of course, cause who can play "single" with kids to take care of?) He took the nicer more reliable car, even tho both cars were gifts from my parents. He didnt even feel he needed to ask me which of MY cars I would prefer to keep. He made a huge deal this weekend about spending time with his kids, so I asked him if he would mind taking them for the day on saturday so i could spend that time looking for a weekend job. He got mad at me. He said I wasnt interested in looking for a job I was just a f ed up mother who wanted to get the kids out of my hair for a few hours. I am trying really really hard not to be bitter, but every time I have to deal with him I feel like I am going crazy. He was suppose to call the kids on his lunch break (which he told them he would not me, he made a huge deal to them about calling them everyday between 6-7.) He never called. At 6:45 I found myself feeling horrible because I couldnt decide which i felt stronger about...wanting him to call for their piece of mind or praying he wouldnt for mine. (The funny thing is they didnt even notice he didnt call them.)
Someone tell me this gets easier. Does divorcing a self-absorbed possible narcissist ever get any easier? Will I ever be able to have a short conversation with him, where I dont feel like I am losing my mind?
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Every time I think of calling on him, I remind myself why I cant ever go back.
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