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nolonger
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Re: What are the ramifications for renigging?

02/02/09 09:06 AM

It was established in this case that the jewelry (valued at over $50,000) was communal property due to it's significant value.

I just wonder how he has dibs on MY boat! I am willing to cash him for me to keep it, but I can't even think about how he feels he has a right to even consider buying it from me. That'd be like me telling him that his brand new snowmobile is MINE when he bought it after I moved out. I isn't mine and never was! I don't even think about getting it!

Also, it's clear to me that my jewelry he's using as a tool for emotional abuse. His message said, "I bought it. It's mine. I don't love you any more so it means nothing to you, and I may want to give it to my future wife." What this statement has in it is a lie: WE bought it for ME. An attempt to hurt my feelings: I don't love you any more. Brainwashing by him telling me what I feel: It means nothing to you. And another cut to my feelings: I may want to give it to my future wife (he's seriously dating an ex friend of mine).

Two things are clear. He's using any means to punish me. He doesn't seriously need/want the jewelry (or the boat)but he's willing to abuse the negotiations to get everything from me.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
What are the ramifications for renigging?	nolonger	01/26/09 05:23 PM
Re: What are the ramifications for renigging?	PhoenixRising	01/27/09 01:49 PM
Re: What are the ramifications for renigging?	nolonger	01/27/09 09:37 PM
Re: What are the ramifications for renigging?	PhoenixRising	01/28/09 09:17 AM
Re: What are the ramifications for renigging?	nolonger	01/28/09 11:13 AM
Re: What are the ramifications for renigging?	nolonger	02/01/09 10:14 PM
Re: What are the ramifications for renigging?	shortmarriage	02/01/09 10:24 PM
Re: What are the ramifications for renigging?	nolonger	02/02/09 09:06 AM

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