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to tell whole truth to my son or not???
      02/04/09 12:08 PM

We have been married for 15 years and have a 13 year old kid. Live in Ontario. My wife now wants a divorce (and I know it is because of some other guy...i have covertly discovered). I dont want a divorce but she is not willing to even talk about it.

When I was out of town, she has told my son about he intended divorce (but not about the other guy)...she said that we did not get along together and were incompatible. ( I admit our marriage has not been an ideal one but i am willing to make up she is not willing to talk about it)

SHOULD I tell my son everything I know about the other man? I have 2 clear intentions:
1. Want to save the marriage. (I feel sick just dragging my son into this and trying to "use" him in forcing her not to take the step...but this might be the only way to save it)
2. If I cannot save it, I want my son to know the truth and I dont want him to live with them. I am not sure how he will take it.

My questions again:
1. Should I tell my son everything?
2. What are the chances (legally) of him living solely with me ( if he agrees)..CALL me old fashioned..but I dont want him to grow up in a 3rd person environment

I am depressed and am thinking of leaving my job just to attend to this....any advice/help/suggestions/experiences PLEASE!!.

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* to tell whole truth to my son or not??? gm4 02/04/09 12:08 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? Debi   02/04/09 09:51 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? gm4   02/05/09 09:18 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? Debi   02/05/09 10:29 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? steve23   03/05/09 10:40 PM
. * * SPAM Maury   03/06/09 10:46 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? bjaks   02/19/09 12:55 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? johnson27   03/03/09 06:22 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? finz   03/13/09 08:39 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? childrenfirst   02/20/09 10:32 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? bjaks   02/21/09 01:58 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? Redlegg   02/21/09 04:14 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? bjaks   02/21/09 03:31 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? Redlegg   02/21/09 04:40 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? bjaks   02/22/09 12:13 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? Redlegg   02/22/09 04:52 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? finz   02/23/09 12:56 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? bjaks   02/23/09 11:11 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? bjaks   02/23/09 11:16 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? finz   02/23/09 09:26 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? bjaks   02/23/09 11:44 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? finz   02/24/09 12:53 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? bjaks   02/24/09 12:05 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? finz   02/24/09 11:11 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? bjaks   02/25/09 01:42 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? finz   02/27/09 11:17 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? finz   02/27/09 11:21 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? bjaks   02/27/09 11:50 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? finz   03/02/09 11:38 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? Redlegg   02/25/09 06:12 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? bjaks   02/25/09 07:59 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? Redlegg   02/25/09 10:12 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? bjaks   02/25/09 12:01 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? Redlegg   02/25/09 02:23 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? shortmarriage   02/25/09 02:38 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? Redlegg   02/24/09 10:04 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? bjaks   02/25/09 01:24 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? gm4   02/05/09 09:24 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? Debi   02/05/09 10:22 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? finz   02/05/09 02:02 AM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? matart1   02/04/09 02:58 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? gm4   02/04/09 04:35 PM
. * * Re: to tell whole truth to my son or not??? priceonthemile   02/04/09 06:44 PM

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