ButterflyMom
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Re: PLEASE HELP!
02/27/09 07:42 PM
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The soldier is required to give the portion of BAH that he recieves due to having a family to the family if they are not living with him. According to the rules on the installations I have been at, if the soldiers family acts up on post,there can be consequences for the soldier. You are right, the soldier does not have to sign for the the dependents to get id cards, but once it is done, the id cards can not be taken away until there is a divorce. I know this for a fact. I used the term straightening out instead of going into detail. If a soldier is behaving inappropriately towards his family, actions such as taking anger management classes, and/or remvoal from the home and sent to the barracks can be done. This I also know to be fact. As for restricting, they can do that.... for example, several soldiers from a unit were arrested for DUI so the whole unit was restricted to post for a 48 hr period (the weekend). Yet another example of how the commander can get the soldier to do what is required of him, including paying the rent and or damages: A soldier lives off post, but does not take care of the property and is late on the rent repeatedly, all the landlord has to do is make the phone call to post and through whatever means necessary, within a few days the rent is paid and the damages are fixed ...
That is true, the original poster has not come back to see what anyone answers....
Yes, i realize that there is a procedure, but for most newly married military spouses, they do not know that, nor do they typically know that the commander of his unit and/or post can do any of this. And unless they have a really good FRG they usually don't even know where to turn if they do need help.
Are you prior military? just curious...
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