BeckaLeigh
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Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband
03/17/09 09:46 AM
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MissLisa, ya know I luv ya, but I have to say, some of the abusive person's personality doesn't show up until later. I had 2 kids with my X and he used to beat the shyt out of me regularly. The first time I remember him putting his hands on me was when I told him our 2nd child was a boy, he pushed me down a flight of stairs almost 6 mths pregnant. The 2nd time, same pregnancy. Threw me into a mirrored closet door at 8 months. I had nowhere to go, I was paying for the apt, etc... Was it smart? No. Could I have gone to a shelter or something like that with the kids? Yes. I didn't, though. I put up with alot from him, thinking our kids deserved to have their dad in their lives. But, I can honestly say that what didn't kill me made me ALOT stronger. Was it in a way I wanted? No. But, I can't go back and change the past. I can live the present and thank God I got rid of him and have a wonderful man in my life.
Point being, b/c I tend to get sidetracked when I type, we make mistakes. We may stay where we shouldn't longer than we should. But, an abuser has ways of making you believe things that you would never believe otherwise. No excuse, just telling you how I see it now. And to be quite honest, while there are alot of things I would do differently if I had the chance, my kids are not one of them, whether their dad is a shyt or not.
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I tried being normal once. Worst five minutes of my life.
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