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dramafreeplease
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Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband
      03/27/09 04:39 PM

wow i totally missed this second page! i actually cried. i must appologize for some critical judgements i laid upon misslisa. i see now how you could have judged me. the fact of the matter is misslisa that i'm not one of those women who married for money or what he could give me. i was the giver. no matter how bad he treated me i still made his dinner at night, washed his clothes, and took care of the wifely things i was taught i was supposed to take care of. i didn't ask him for money for anything that wasnt necessary for me to live. i only bought new clothes once every three years. never had my hair done in a salon or my nails. i quit wearing make up. before i wouldnt walk out to the mailbox without it! i was a trophy wife until i got pregnant with our daughter. then homelife and raising a child became more important than having things that were shiney and looking my best at all times. like i said i had him arrested on march 24 for domestic violence. and i plan on moving after the kids are done with school for the year. i dont want to make it anymore hard on them then they've already had it. i've reassured them that no matter what happens they will see daddy. even if we're hours away i will make the effort to do everything in my power for them to see him even though i know he'll just ask them questions and fill their heads with nonsense. i will bring those concerns up with the judge but most of those things unfortunately fall on deaf ears. supervised visits will also be a topic of concern since i believe he would take the children and go to mexico. i would love for them to see their family down there,but it's just not an option at this time at all. i will continue to take the high road and not bad mouth him to them. they will have a hard enough time being away from him. i admit i will cry. not for me and the time wasted, but for them. i realize that i alone cannot fix this marriage, so before my spirit is broken and i need to be medicated for it, i will do what is best for them and myself and start the divorce.thanks again for all of the support from you guys. it really does help.

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* money hoarding,controling, abusive husband dramafreeplease 03/13/09 09:36 AM
. * * Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband Misslisa1017   03/13/09 04:35 PM
. * * Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband BeckaLeigh   03/17/09 09:46 AM
. * * Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband kotabear   03/23/09 10:46 AM
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. * * Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband dramafreeplease   03/13/09 08:28 PM
. * * Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband finz   03/13/09 11:17 PM
. * * Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband kdpnas94   03/16/09 12:03 AM
. * * Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband Greenstreet53   08/10/09 08:34 PM
. * * Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband finz   03/17/09 02:40 AM
. * * Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband dramafreeplease   03/27/09 03:55 PM
. * * Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband dramafreeplease   03/27/09 04:39 PM
. * * Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband BeckaLeigh   03/27/09 05:44 PM
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. * * Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband finz   03/30/09 10:57 PM
. * * Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband Yes_Dad   03/31/09 03:50 AM
. * * Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband Misslisa1017   03/27/09 07:10 AM
. * * Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband kotabear   03/23/09 10:44 AM
. * * Re: money hoarding,controling, abusive husband DivorcePara   03/16/09 03:17 PM
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