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dante
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Re: My account disappeared, but I have more questions

04/17/09 02:30 PM

DeeCan - I feel you on all fronts, believe me. It is my fear that THIS is just the person she really is inside. To me, it is insane. It's like a Jekell and Hyde complex that rational people just don't get (ie., ME). But, I don't know if that is the case for sure, hence the therapy. The next session is tonight and I am hoping to deep-dive some of this sh*t. She claims she wants to change herself because she is terribly unhappy with herself and doesn't know why she self-destructs all her relationships. (sidenote: We have both been married once before...I swore this time I had chosen wisely, thus my decision to finally have children).

Being the man that I am, I just don't want to let the ship sink until I know there is too much structural damage to save it. I know that she knows that getting rid of her husband doesn't get rid of the problem and it will resurface again and again, each time negatively impacting my children..so I will see this thing to it's end if that is what needs to happen. I am emotionally, mentally, financially and parentally invested in this thing, as much as I wish it were not so. Also, seeing as this will be my FINAL time at the alter with anyone, I need to make sure I give it all I've got. After choosing bad women to marry twice (the first was a different set of circumstances that I was overwhelmingly happy to get away from), I believe that either A) People are not meant for lasting relationships (which is unlikely), or B) I cannot trust myself to make the right decisions in relationships, which is most likely. The only way to remedy that is to forget the notion of marriage for myself and hopefully raise my kids to be far more wise than their father ever was. If they need an example, they can look at their mother.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
My account disappeared, but I have more questions	dante	04/16/09 11:03 AM
Re: My account disappeared, but I have more questions	javajunkiee	04/16/09 12:32 PM
Re: My account disappeared, but I have more questions	dante	04/16/09 12:53 PM
Re: My account disappeared, but I have more questions	WhoDaresWins	04/16/09 09:42 PM
Re: My account disappeared, but I have more questions	dante	04/17/09 07:47 AM
Re: My account disappeared, but I have more questions	DeeCan	04/17/09 12:03 PM
Re: My account disappeared, but I have more questions	losingfaith	04/17/09 04:30 PM
Re: My account disappeared, but I have more questions	dante	04/17/09 02:30 PM
Re: My account disappeared, but I have more questions	DeeCan	04/18/09 07:28 PM
Re: My account disappeared, but I have more questions	Bust	04/25/09 03:39 PM
I agree with DeeCan	Annie7676	04/17/09 04:20 PM

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