
javajunkiee
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Re: My Ex Son-in-Law is taking use to court June 30th
05/18/09 10:47 PM
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It sounds like he's asking for Right of First Refusal. He believes that anytime the kids are out of her care for x # of hours, that they should be with their father. That clause is usually put in place when one parent feels the other has abdicated their parenting role to others. He may or may not get it; your D certainly has the right to let her parents see their grandchild, but if he can *prove* you're doing more of the parenting than she is, you could have an issue.
Even if he gets ROFR, that won't cut you out of the childs life. It may however aim to restrict the amt of continuous time the child is with you. For example, if he gets ROFR that says 'if mom is unavailable for more than 6 continuous hours, child is to spend said hours with dad'. The time will be whatever the judge orders, and it will be worded better, but that is the gist of it. It will also be up to dad to *prove* if she doesn't adhere to it and lets the child stay with you, without her, over that time limit.
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