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Re: What to do? (whining I guess)
      06/02/09 06:26 AM

You would be surprised at how similiar your story is to alot of others. It's a rut, and every relationship/marriage has them.

Have you explained how you felt to her, but in a manner that doesn't come off as placing blame or pointing fingers? People can be much more receptive when they don't feel attacked, so instead of using the word *you*, use *we* when discussing problems.

And what about counseling? Even if she opts out, you can still get alot out of it. Do you guys have a date night each week? I feel like this is important in every relationship. A night that the two of you can just go out and have a good time without the worries of taking care of this or that.... A movie, dinner, miniature golf, etc.

Love and Marriage is alot more than just about feelings and emotions. It's about commitment and hard work also. You have ups and downs, it's great when you're there thru the ups, but being able to be there for one another during the down times....well THAT is true love.

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* What to do? (whining I guess) baldric 06/01/09 11:34 PM
. * * Re: What to do? (whining I guess) Lillian   06/07/09 04:45 PM
. * * Re: What to do? (whining I guess) bilbus   06/09/09 12:38 AM
. * * Re: What to do? (whining I guess) baldric   02/06/11 03:13 PM
. * * No not whining Annie7676   06/05/09 07:15 AM
. * * Re: No not whining baldric   06/05/09 10:03 PM
. * * Re: No not whining yregna   06/10/09 01:16 PM
. * * Re: No not whining baldric   06/18/09 12:20 AM
. * * Re: No not whining yregna   07/14/09 01:38 PM
. * * Re: No not whining losingfaith   07/14/09 03:06 PM
. * * Re: No not whining losingfaith   06/18/09 01:38 PM
. * * Re: No not whining jaybeedee619   06/07/09 04:41 PM
. * * Re: What to do? (whining I guess) ajs06   06/03/09 11:32 AM
. * * Re: What to do? (whining I guess) yregna   06/02/09 09:49 AM
. * * Re: What to do? (whining I guess) johnson27   06/02/09 06:26 AM
. * * Re: What to do? (whining I guess) losingfaith   06/02/09 09:06 AM

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