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Re: How fast do "older" relationships go?
      06/23/09 07:17 AM

I don't know that there's a timetable, nolonger -- I think you can fall in love with someone in the time frame that you've given but is it a real deep abiding love that can weather the crises and disappointments of everyday life? You won't know that for awhile.

Why question it? If it's not real, you'll know at some point in the future. If it's what you have right now then it's fine.

I would seriously advise caution especially if there are kids involved -- my STBX had a simply horrid child -- a great exwife, that wasn't the issue -- but if the two of you can't come to some agreement when you explore parenting styles, discipline, family life, expectations, THEN I would suggest thinking seriously about sharing your lives.

Those things don't go away, no matter what you do and they have brought many relationships to their knees.

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* How fast do "older" relationships go? nolonger 06/22/09 08:40 PM
. * * Re: As fast as you set the pace...... Annie7676   10/11/09 07:37 AM
. * * Re: How fast do "older" relationships go? timbuktu   10/01/09 11:44 PM
. * * Re: How fast do "older" relationships go? timbuktu   09/30/09 09:12 PM
. * * Re: How fast do "older" relationships go? fossilman   12/07/09 10:36 PM
. * * Re: How fast do "older" relationships go? gsabas   07/17/09 11:06 AM
. * * Re: How fast do "older" relationships go? dree   07/20/09 02:09 AM
. * * Re: How fast do "older" relationships go? BeachBabeRN   06/23/09 07:17 AM
. * * Re: How fast do "older" relationships go? Wallie1337   06/29/09 10:35 PM
. * * Re: How fast do "older" relationships go? Yes_Dad   07/11/09 06:41 AM
. * * Re: How fast do "older" relationships go? myheart   07/08/09 10:31 AM
. * * Re: How fast do "older" relationships go? Bobby44   07/08/09 10:40 AM
. * * Re: How fast do "older" relationships go? timbuktu   11/25/09 08:33 PM
. * * Re: How fast do "older" relationships go? timbuktu   10/10/09 07:59 PM
. * * Re: How fast do "older" relationships go? myheart   07/08/09 02:30 PM

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