Oh god this is gonna sound bad.
Here are my rules
I don't lie, I don't steal, I don't cheat, I don't do drugs and I don't talk behind your back... But I will be damn sure to say whatever right in front of your face as well... LMFAO... I don't hide anything, its all out there for you to pick through.... Love Me... Hate Me... I don't care because it won't make me or break me and ~~~> I love me some ME !!!
~~ From that earlier Post ~~ Don't get me wrong, I learned alot from that relationship that I wanted to take to the next level.
To keep it short, I had a family health issue come up. And I was alone from my family for 2 months, she was the closest person at the time. So I trusted her for company & support. But it faded during that time. I think thats why I took that break up so bad. But thats over and done and I've definitely moved on...
Back to the question at hand. I work on me all the time, gym, hockey, playing with my boy, yardwork, spending time with friends, shopping, reading, holding a bar stool down, & I do work... LOL, I have a cake Govt Salary job, where I work about 4 hours a day and home by noon. (yeah I know you hate me) So I have alot of free time....
Heres the part where you hate me. I have different categories with "girls". You have possible relationship status, you have someone fun to hang out with(bars etc), you have nothing there but they are nice, and you have hook ups. Don't get me wrong, I treat all of them with respect and show them a fun time on dates. They are the ones to wanna sleep with me. But I make sure I tell/ask them this is casual or I don't want you to get too attached or what ever the "thing" is. LOL... Im honest and upfront, deal with it. This is where it gets really bad, but honestly I am charming and a bit of a flirt. Don't hate me for being able to carry a conversation while looking at a girl in the eyes, or noticing she did something different with her hair, or remembering what kind of purse she has, or complimenting her on her shoes, or watching the same movies as girls do, or enjoy shopping and looking nice. I notice things about people and try to make people feel better about themselves, because people do notice little things.... I don't do it as a "routine to get laid". I never press the sex issue. The sexual tension is fun though, keeps the dating fun and exciting. And yes, I have lost interest even without having sex with them.
Yeah yeah yeah. By the way, I have two extremely close friends that I tell everything to and get there advice. One is my EX, who I am extremely open with, and we are very good friends now. Its almost uncanny? The other is a girl, who has been down the divorce road and other "relationship roads". So its good to get there advice on interests and other dating tips. I like to call it, spying on the enemy. Just kidding,lol... But really I trust them with dating advice and its nice to see the view of an outside party with no emotions involved with my dates. Yes they think Im a man-[censored] too.
So I dunno? You know how they say, "When something exciting happens, You're the first person I wanna call and talk about it." you know? like the person you daydream about... Well I honestly do feel that way, for about a month? And then it just kinda fades, sometimes from both sides, hers and mine. Personally I think its because Im too nice? If everything is going fine and he's nice then they don't have anything to work on and it takes some of the dating fun away. Laugh at me, but Im just saying.