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losingfaith
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Re: my story

08/11/09 02:55 PM

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How do we find happiness that is gonna last?

It takes work
Once the luster of any relationship starts to fade the fun is over and the work begins

Having a long term relationship is never easy it takes work on both parts.
Like I said earlier no one person can fix it...
it takes two and a real effort to the commitment of it

I understand you would like to think there is some magic word that will make him wake up to the fact that this is worth fighting for but the thing to keep in mind while that may be true in the eyes of many if he cant see it for him self then you are going to have to accept that.

It’s like telling a virus not to get you sick. It only knows that it is doing what it needs to survive and is unaware of the fact that in it’s attempt to perpetuate it’s species it is in fact affecting others.

Can he be woken up to that fact?
Yes he can but how to make him see that is another story all together.

If you really want it then who am I to tell you any different; but keep in mind you need to look out for your own mental heath when trying to fight for this. You can’t hold on to someone that doesn’t want you to hold on to them.

I guess you will find out Sunday what his intentions are.

My advice is prepare your self for bad news that way in the event it is in fact bad news you don’t fall apart inform of him.

I say that because if it were me I would not give anyone the satisfaction of seeing that.

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Standing above the crowd he had a voice that was strong and loud

Edited by losingfaith (08/11/09 04:55 PM)

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
my story	danielle16	07/18/09 08:45 PM
Re: my story	losingfaith	07/20/09 09:39 AM
Re: my story	dree	07/24/09 04:13 PM
Re: my story	losingfaith	07/25/09 09:10 AM
Re: my story	danielle16	07/25/09 03:18 PM
Re: my story	losingfaith	07/27/09 10:14 AM
Re: my story	danielle16	07/27/09 08:45 PM
Re: my story	danielle16	08/06/09 05:44 AM
Re: my story	losingfaith	08/06/09 07:44 AM
Re: my story	losingfaith	08/06/09 02:32 PM
Re: my story	danielle16	08/08/09 10:33 AM
Re: my story	losingfaith	08/10/09 04:26 PM
Re: my story	danielle16	08/10/09 05:32 PM
Re: my story	losingfaith	08/11/09 02:55 PM
Re: my story	danielle16	08/07/09 07:35 PM

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