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Re: verbal abuse against children
09/02/09 09:07 AM
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AH, I don't know if you are aware of my brief past on here with Finz. She's as bad as the other trolls on here, IMO. As far as the advice I was seeking, the responses I did get are so obvious and I admit I was offended that the responders didn't already think I thought of that and I am seeking advice more on the legal side of things.
For instance, during a series of e-mails, my ex mentioned he was upset that our kids have two parents who despise each other. My response to him was that if I were treated with common decency and could trust that when we tried to speak rationally to one another I would not be verbally attacked by him, we/the kids/everyone would be better off. His response? "Did your dad sexually abuse you because you're one sick chick!" So here it was we were trying to discuss an issue and there was absolutely nothing achieved.
Another example: I had 2 of the 4 kids on his day on a special outing. They asked to stay with me longer. Ex screamed to me on the phone, with the 2 children in his car,"Just because you couldn't find anyone to f*** this weekend doesn't mean I have to give you the kids!"
The two above exchanges happened Sunday and Thursday of last week. There has been no communication by me since but 11 texts from him in between.
So talking rationally with him does not exist.
I also take offense that it was suggested I parent better. If I wasn't at my wit's end trying to figure out how to parent better beyond "outside the box", I wouldn't desperately be here.
All it seems I get here, though, is "in the box" thinking to which I am frustrated by because that's how society is and why our laws don't protect against verbal abuse on ly physical abuse.
And, for the record, my children (ages 12,11,9,7) do NOT use drugs and are NOT sexually active. I am trying to preventative parent, not reactive parent.
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