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cracked
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Re: How to minimize the guaranteed damage?

09/27/09 05:50 PM

Thank you everyone. I appreciate the responses. I wrote this on these boards because I'm a little unsure of how to proceed, and also to hear advice on the process. I'd like to know as much as I can before I commit.

Then there is also the fact that I think I know what I want, but every time I decide that I'm willing to live apart from my kids, something hits me to make me think I'm being crazy. Java's comments in particular. I would liek to think my wife wouldnt make a war of this. I honestly dont think that she would. But I suppose many people thought the same to find they were wrong.

The truth is that my relationship with my wife was broken before our first kid. I was a different man then and I was having a hard time letting that bad relationship go. Holding on to the memory of a better version of us. I held on long enough for her to get pregnant. To revive passion.. it would need to be created from nothing.

I am terrified of losing my kids. I am steeling myself for this change. I'm not saying that I am prepared for it. I dont think I can be totally, but I think something fundamental has to change regardless. I've never known depression. But I'm learning. I don't think there is enough in my wife and I to heal.

Is the advice to stay for the kids and after 10 years or so things will be better? really?

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
How to minimize the guaranteed damage?	cracked	09/26/09 10:52 AM
Re: How to minimize the guaranteed damage?	almostheaven	10/04/09 04:27 PM
Re: How to minimize the guaranteed damage?	javajunkiee	09/26/09 02:02 PM
Re: How to minimize the guaranteed damage?	christine1	09/26/09 07:03 PM
Re: How to minimize the guaranteed damage?	Fishergirl	09/26/09 08:45 PM
Re: How to minimize the guaranteed damage?	cracked	09/27/09 05:50 PM
Re: How to minimize the guaranteed damage?	AloneInTheDark	09/27/09 06:50 PM
Re: How to minimize the guaranteed damage?	almostheaven	10/04/09 04:53 PM
Re: How to minimize the guaranteed damage?	finz	10/05/09 11:55 PM
Re: How to minimize the guaranteed damage?	AloneInTheDark	10/14/09 02:03 PM
Re: How to minimize the guaranteed damage?	BnBlindBtNowISee	09/26/09 11:14 AM

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