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AloneInTheDark
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Re: Approaching D-Day...What to expect re alimony

09/29/09 08:32 AM

You have been married 17 years. There have been times when you have been really close and other times like now you are not. What happened to the commitment you made when you got married. I almost bet that this isnt the first time you havent felt close but whatever it was you did at the time or something made you feel close again.

What happened to your commitment that you made when you said your wedding vowells? Is it a case where you just want to try someone new or have already met someone who seems to be your next "soulmate" at the moment? Thats called a midlife crisis and most relationships that I have ever heard about/read about/know about dont last very long after the divorce anyway. Why cant you at least stay together for the sake of the kids until they leave the house. Its not like you can't live with her. You have for 17 years.

I just think too many people take the easy way out with excuses of verbal abuse, I dont love him/her any more, and being lazy about putting effort into their marriage. They want or think the have found the next best thing but hurt their whole family and just the spouse. They affect their kids in ways they dont even think about. The pain they feel and have to deal with wondereing if they were part of the reason, wondering why they cant see their mom or dad when they want, and it teaches them that families dont matter and the easy way out is better then putting effort in and fixing the problems, even if the effort is just not to speak sometimes when they are mad and to cool off before the talk. We also teach them that marriage and families are meant to fail no matter what so why bother or to expect it no matter what they do. /rant off lol.

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AloneInTheDark but life goes even without being a Dad any more.

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Approaching D-Day...What to expect re alimony	beatdown	09/21/09 11:22 AM
Re: Approaching D-Day...What to expect re alimony	Yes_Dad	09/22/09 08:26 AM
Re: Approaching D-Day...What to expect re alimony	beatdown	09/22/09 08:40 AM
Re: Approaching D-Day...What to expect re alimony	CuriousGeorge	09/23/09 06:28 PM
Re: Approaching D-Day...What to expect re alimony	AloneInTheDark	09/29/09 08:32 AM
Re: Approaching D-Day...What to expect re alimony	lisamey01	10/18/09 05:26 PM

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