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Re: feel like I'm unraveling
09/29/09 12:06 PM
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I feel like my road is leading to divorce, but I am trying to look at all my options before that decision. I started counselling today. To say I feel a deep sense of relief is an understatement. I don't have any more answers than I did before I walked into that room, but I now have a path. My mental health is so shot at this point I can't imagine I am a very effective parent. I am just taking on breath at a time and eventually things will be the way they are suppose to be. I think my therapist (which btw, my husband says he doesn't want to go to) is going to be a HUGE source of help. She is pro doing the right thing given all the situations. She will help me work out my inner demons and see what is to become of my marriage. If I walk away, it will be knowing I did everything I could to try to make things work. If I did end up divorced, I would move back down to my hometown. All my support system is there. My kids (and I) would be surrounded by friends and family. The kids would get more support than they have here. They wouldn't have their dad, but he's pretty much abscent anyway. He does spend more time with them than he does with me, but really, that's not saying much. Thank you so much for the support!!
My dad cheated on my mom. I was the one to catch him. I know the emotional turmoil it caused, though my mother stayed. I could not emotionally handle doing that to my husband, but I am starting to understand the loneliness and desire to have someone that feels like you are important. Maybe one day I will have true love, if there is even such a thing.....
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