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timbuktu
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Re: How fast do "older" relationships go?

10/10/09 07:59 PM

I know how you feel as..after a 23 year relationship and a 14 year marriage...he moved out to be with a woman he'd been messing around with behind my back for quite awhile.

I hybernated for 6 months..cried my eyes out..went through counseling....was put on antidepressants and anxiety meds....I was just a mess!!

I honestly didn't think I'd ever meet someone that I loved ever again and just resigned myself to being alone for the rest of my life..as it was easier than going out there and just "waiting" for someone to fine me.

Well, love found me and I've known this guy for two weeks. He's already told me he's in love with me...wants me to move in with him..and rent out my house.

No go!

Again...he treats me soooo well and I love it BUT....I've learned the hard way not to move too fast.

I truely do love him as we get along soooo well!! Never had a guy actually want to chat about his day with me...talk to me about his family...sit down at the kitchen table and share a cup of coffee, etc. He treats me like a queen and I can't imagine how I got so lucky to find such a great guy...

Everybody has their vices though and although he's asked me to move in with him...take care of all the idiosycracis of my current home...wants to marry me, etc....I had no choice but to tell him to please slow down.

After being in a crappy marriage..it's easy to fall. I can't say that I don't believe in his love for me..because I do...I'm just applying the brakes a little bit simply because I really want this..and spending too much time together in the beginning is just asking for disaster down the road.

So..we're taking our time..it's tough because I miss him everytime we're apart...but it needs to happen. Loving someone can be soooo easy..but falling out of that love when you jumped in to quicky with both feet....it's just a recipe for disaster.

Hope I helped and you continue on your road to happiness.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
How fast do "older" relationships go?	nolonger	06/22/09 08:40 PM
Re: As fast as you set the pace......	Annie7676	10/11/09 07:37 AM
Re: How fast do "older" relationships go?	timbuktu	10/01/09 11:44 PM
Re: How fast do "older" relationships go?	timbuktu	09/30/09 09:12 PM
Re: How fast do "older" relationships go?	fossilman	12/07/09 10:36 PM
Re: How fast do "older" relationships go?	gsabas	07/17/09 11:06 AM
Re: How fast do "older" relationships go?	dree	07/20/09 02:09 AM
Re: How fast do "older" relationships go?	BeachBabeRN	06/23/09 07:17 AM
Re: How fast do "older" relationships go?	Wallie1337	06/29/09 10:35 PM
Re: How fast do "older" relationships go?	Yes_Dad	07/11/09 06:41 AM
Re: How fast do "older" relationships go?	myheart	07/08/09 10:31 AM
Re: How fast do "older" relationships go?	Bobby44	07/08/09 10:40 AM
Re: How fast do "older" relationships go?	timbuktu	11/25/09 08:33 PM
Re: How fast do "older" relationships go?	timbuktu	10/10/09 07:59 PM
Re: How fast do "older" relationships go?	myheart	07/08/09 02:30 PM

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