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losingfaith
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Re: Confusing

10/19/09 09:16 AM

To Karen1

Why are you referring to me as a troll?
Is it because I'm a man?
If so that's a bit sexist is it not?

You say I contradict myself…
How so?

Because we allow situation to control how we think
It’s true and in the beginning I did that very thing and trust me when I say that finding out the truth about the woman I loved and was married too was a rude awakening and I wanted to be wrong so desperately that I allowed it to affect my better judgment

But think what you will if you have never lived with a drug addict then you can never and I mean NEVER understand.

It’s a rollercoaster mind F**K of a ride that you can’t get off of no matter how hard you try.

To Rainbow555

First of all I am in no way “Righteous”. I am a human, filled with flaws and my biggest one is giving a $hit. I wish I could be cold hearted and just give up on people but for some reason I can’t. Some call it co-dependency I say it’s caring.
Call it what you will.

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EXCUSE ME? Since when are HER husbands issues her PROBLEM?
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Last I checked the words are in sickness and in health
I understand that this is not a sickness “as some have described” but that does not excuse the fact that it is a problem with someone that you have made a commitment too; and in turn, you should do what ever you can to help them.

Your husband may have done this for 20+ years and did nothing about it but this girl was only married for one year (ONE YEAR!!!!)
I don’t call that trying
I see that as bailing…
Sorry you can’t change my mind on that

But go on and be like the rest of the sheep and lemmings following in that line never thinking for yourself and stay living in that fast food on demand “I want it right now not in one week” fantasy world if you will.

Sorry but you will never find happiness (well not true happiness anyway) because you expect someone else to provide that happiness for you…
when it truth it comes from within and it’s something you must provide yourself with.

If you could blame the problems in your relationship on drugs or ever alcohol then maybe I could see things from your side.
Maybe it’s because I simply don’t understand how someone can let someone else control them.
Like I said earlier my first wife hit me with a books, pans, shoos, and anything thing she could get her hands on simply because I wanted to walk away from an argument but I never let that stop me from leaving I still walked out that door and drove away every time. (but then again I guess I would have allowed someone to control me to understand that situation

For the record try dealing with a drug problem individual
You want to believe them sooooooo bad
You want to think I’m just paranoid there is nothing going on
But then you see it and you think it’s my fault

You know what never mind I’m not even going to waist my time explaining this to you

I’ve said too much already
Have a good day

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Standing above the crowd he had a voice that was strong and loud

Edited by losingfaith (10/19/09 09:59 AM)

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Confusing	20lasttime	10/07/09 02:31 PM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/23/09 10:50 AM
Re: Confusing	Rainbow555	10/08/09 08:51 AM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/09/09 08:39 AM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/09/09 11:05 AM
Re: Confusing	Rainbow555	10/15/09 09:39 AM
Re: Confusing	Karen1	10/15/09 06:00 PM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/19/09 09:16 AM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/19/09 09:29 AM
Re: Confusing	ps1	10/19/09 08:53 PM
Re: Confusing	myheart	10/19/09 10:14 PM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/23/09 09:58 AM
Re: Confusing	20lasttime	10/09/09 11:55 AM
Re: Confusing	BB1	10/09/09 03:36 PM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/09/09 04:34 PM
Re: Confusing	BB1	10/09/09 05:38 PM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/09/09 01:37 PM
Re: Confusing	20lasttime	10/09/09 03:10 PM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/09/09 04:30 PM
Re: Confusing	20lasttime	10/09/09 10:01 PM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/11/09 07:00 PM
Re: Confusing	Karen1	10/12/09 10:09 PM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/13/09 09:12 AM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/13/09 09:18 AM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/13/09 10:33 AM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/13/09 12:13 PM
Re: Confusing	Karen1	10/13/09 05:12 PM
Re: Confusing	Karen1	10/07/09 07:27 PM
Re: Confusing	20lasttime	10/07/09 09:27 PM

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