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losingfaith
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Re: Confusing

10/23/09 09:58 AM

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It doesn't matter who left first and why. End result is one left and a marriage broke. Many times without giving a chance to even make it work. Marriage is a serious thing, lots of commitment

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Yep that's it in a nut shell
If you not ready to handle it then you should never have made that promise, “that OATH!” in the first place

I'm not saying there are not situations that warrant leaving but regardless it is your responsibility no matter if you like it or not.
People should have truly thought about this before they said “I Do” in the first place.
This is why it is so important to date for some time before you get married so you can get to truly know one another before you get to that point but even in cases where people date for some time they never ask the right questions like…
What are you ideas on marriage?
How do you see your spouse being in your marriage?
Do you want kids?

And then you have an even sadder side to that story “when someone is not honest” and says that they want this and want that but that is not what they really want at all. They are only saying that because they think if they are honest they will be alone.

I just want to quote Rainbow555 again

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EXCUSE ME? Since when are HER husbands issues her PROBLEM?
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I have a question about this statement…
So by this line of thinking you are saying that it would be perfectly acceptable that your husband get up and walk out on you if you were to have a stoke?
Or let’s say you lost a limb. Then it would be ok right because it’s not his problem right?

Well hell lets not stop there let say it’s ok to leave someone simply because they put on a few pounds or simply because they started loosing there hair.

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Standing above the crowd he had a voice that was strong and loud

Edited by losingfaith (10/23/09 10:59 AM)

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Confusing	20lasttime	10/07/09 02:31 PM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/23/09 10:50 AM
Re: Confusing	Rainbow555	10/08/09 08:51 AM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/09/09 08:39 AM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/09/09 11:05 AM
Re: Confusing	Rainbow555	10/15/09 09:39 AM
Re: Confusing	Karen1	10/15/09 06:00 PM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/19/09 09:16 AM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/19/09 09:29 AM
Re: Confusing	ps1	10/19/09 08:53 PM
Re: Confusing	myheart	10/19/09 10:14 PM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/23/09 09:58 AM
Re: Confusing	20lasttime	10/09/09 11:55 AM
Re: Confusing	BB1	10/09/09 03:36 PM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/09/09 04:34 PM
Re: Confusing	BB1	10/09/09 05:38 PM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/09/09 01:37 PM
Re: Confusing	20lasttime	10/09/09 03:10 PM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/09/09 04:30 PM
Re: Confusing	20lasttime	10/09/09 10:01 PM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/11/09 07:00 PM
Re: Confusing	Karen1	10/12/09 10:09 PM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/13/09 09:12 AM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/13/09 09:18 AM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/13/09 10:33 AM
Re: Confusing	losingfaith	10/13/09 12:13 PM
Re: Confusing	Karen1	10/13/09 05:12 PM
Re: Confusing	Karen1	10/07/09 07:27 PM
Re: Confusing	20lasttime	10/07/09 09:27 PM

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