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Shyn
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Divorced and still experiencing emotional abuse
      11/01/09 09:16 PM

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I have been divorced for over 6 months now and my ex-husband is so rude and abusive when he calls. Pretty much through the divorce, I managed to keep a smile on my face and then he did the unthinkable and slept and got involved with my own sister. Even though I know I did the right thing by divorcing him, that hurts me deep. He won't even see or spend time with the children (2) and is so full of himself! Our son was admitted in the hospital for a medical problem and he is just two and my ex-husband was off work for vacation. When I called and the doctor called to let him know what was going on, he would not answer his phone. He does not have voicemail. Then he called the day before he was discharged and I told him about our son on he would not see him. His response "I don't want to be at a hospital or drive around and take him to appointments!" I have let go and know I don't call him at all and if he wants to speak to them, he has to call. I spoke to an attorney and I know I can sue him for child abandonment even though he pays child support (sometimes he misses). You know when we were just seperated and there was not a child support order, he would spend time with him and since I filed for divorce, he is nastier than he has ever been. Also he does things like call me from strange numbers (which I won't answer) and he even had his aunt call me from a hospital or he called. Right now going back to court is so time consuming and draining. I like to focus on me and my children and just be positive but when he does call, the things he says are so vulgar. I hang up when it is not concerning our children but it can be draining. Any advice would be appreciated!

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* Divorced and still experiencing emotional abuse Shyn 11/01/09 09:16 PM
. * * Re: Divorced and still experiencing emotional abuse yregna   11/19/09 09:49 PM
. * * Re: Divorced and still experiencing emotional abuse AloneInTheDark   11/30/09 07:29 PM
. * * Re: Divorced and still experiencing emotional abuse amazing   11/20/09 05:32 PM
. * * Hell, I feel kinda stupid... almostheaven   11/20/09 07:22 AM
. * * Re: Divorced and still experiencing emotional abuse AloneInTheDark   11/04/09 01:19 PM
. * * Re: Divorced and still experiencing emotional abuse BeachBabeRN   11/03/09 06:13 AM
. * * Re: Divorced and still experiencing emotional abuse Shyn   11/03/09 07:31 PM
. * * Re: Divorced and still experiencing emotional abuse d0b0vgall2020   11/03/09 07:48 PM
. * * Re: Divorced and still experiencing emotional abuse finz   11/03/09 07:59 PM
. * * Re: Divorced and still experiencing emotional abuse BeachBabeRN   11/04/09 07:42 AM

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