
CindyLou
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Re: How to move on when your still in love?
11/30/09 07:27 PM
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Dear Katy,
My heart goes out to you and everyone else out there who is in a situation like this. I'm a 46 year old female, and my husband moved out of our home nearly 4 years ago (after I presented him with the evidence of the affair he kept denying he was in), and doesn't want to participate in the divorce, reconciliation, etc. So I get to initiate the divorce proceedings, take care of our home until the market improves enough for me to try and sell it, etc. Through these tasks that need to be done, I have found a new appreciation for myself - what I've done, what I can learn to do, etc. This is a great time to invest in yourself - to rediscover interests that may have been sitting on the back burner for a while. You're one of a kind and you deserve to do the best you can for yourself! It has taken a long time for me to realize that it was his choice to leave a wife who is loyal, honest, supportive, loving, giving, forgiving, etc. I don't know if I'll ever re-marry (I'd like to), but in the mean time, I choose to live a life where I will surround myself with self-love, friends, and activities that I enjoy.
You're in my prayers, dear one.
CindyLou
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