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AppealToReason
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Re: How to move on when your still in love?

12/04/09 03:30 PM

Unfortunately, with any breakup or divorce, there is a process we all have to go through. It hurts, it isn't fun, it's painful, and it can't be escaped. You may find temporary methods to 'forget' about things, but it only delays the inevitable.

From personal experience, the only way to move on is to face the pain head on. You need help to doing this. First of all, a good friend who is willing to listen to you vent is important, someone to validate your feelings and help you understand that no you're not going crazy. Secondly, a counselor to help you walk through the pain and rebuild your sense of self. You've been traumatized, damaged by this. Think of it along the lines of someone in a horrific accident. They can't just heal on their own, they need medical care. Well, in this case, you've experienced a horrific 'emotional' accident and having a professional help you heal is the best way to go.

I wish you the best, I've been where you are and I know how excruciating the pain can be. It does get better, I can promise you that.

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How to move on when your still in love?	katyy1971	11/27/09 08:50 AM
Re: How to move on when your still in love?	CindyLou	11/30/09 07:27 PM
Re: How to move on when your still in love?	CasperDghost	11/30/09 09:10 PM
Re: How to move on when your still in love?	AloneInTheDark	12/02/09 07:44 PM
Re: How to move on when your still in love?	AppealToReason	12/04/09 03:30 PM
Re: How to move on when your still in love?	finz	11/29/09 05:07 PM
Re: How to move on when your still in love?	fossilman	11/30/09 06:08 PM

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