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deal of a lifetime
      12/05/09 07:44 PM

Divorce pending in a few days. She has two from a previous marriage. One out of the house already. Second one is living with someone else at this point. Only my daughter in the house. She told me for years "If anything happens to us, you will have to take her because I can't handle her."

Now that it has come down to the divorce, she has changed her mind. Only conclusion is that she wants the money. Talked to friends who say that she really is not paying any attention to her and is concentrating on her other two children (16 and 18) and leaving mine (11) basically alone most of the time.

I am wanting some feedback on paying her the child support, plus some, and let me take her to raise. Obviously at this point she wants the money, not necessarily the responsibility.

Has anyone heard of this, and if so, what the outcome could be. She has all the property, even mine, and this would leave her with being only concerned with her first two.

Have been the sole provider for a long time and now she has a job (first time in quite a while) and needs the money, so if i take my kid and she gets paid, what would she possibly have heart ache with?

No man haters please. Had enough of you already. Stay away and keep the keyboard yelling to yourself. Thanks. Have a nice day.

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