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CasperDghost
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Re: My Parents' Marriage

12/14/09 09:04 AM

"If he still loved your mother, he would be trying to get the affection and attention he wants from her."

WRONG... Chances are his mother was not meeting the emotional needs of his father and his father got those needs fulfulled elsewhere. I am not saying this is the proper thing to do but thats what happens. He cannot go and GET those needs....she has to GIVE them.

We all have emotional needs. When our partners meet them, we are happy. My wife met mine all the time. I was not meeting hers. When she found another guy who was meeting them and made her feel special, she wanted out of our marriage.

The thing most people do not realize is that these affairs are all fantasy. They go home and have a few of their needs met by their spouse and go to someone else for the other needs. When the marriage breaks up, people quickly find that the person they were having their affair with was a worse choice. All interactions with the other woman (or man) are positive. There is no fighting about money, the kids, the daily bull _ _ _ _. It is all positive. Then, they go to their home life and all the routine garbage comes up. They fail to see that once your with the new person, all that routine stuff WILL come up and things quickly go downhill. The grass isn't greener on the other side....it is greener where you water it.

The book that helped me win my wife back is called "His Needs, Her Needs". Your MOM has to want to save this and follow the plans laid out in this book. It does work.

Edited by CasperDghost (12/14/09 09:08 AM)

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My Parents' Marriage	deadhead594	12/13/09 12:56 AM
Re: My Parents' Marriage	finz	12/14/09 07:48 AM
Re: My Parents' Marriage	CasperDghost	12/14/09 09:04 AM
Re: My Parents' Marriage	Sherron	12/14/09 11:16 AM
Re: My Parents' Marriage	CasperDghost	12/16/09 12:59 PM
Re: My Parents' Marriage	finz	12/20/09 01:52 PM
Re: My Parents' Marriage	CasperDghost	12/23/09 08:51 PM

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