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timbuktu
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Reged: 09/26/09
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Re: How can I ever even want a relationship again

12/26/09 11:06 AM

Thanks for your input Confused. I've taken some time to myself since this has all happened (and it was all fresh when I wrote those lengthy posts out of anger and frustration..), but life has gotten a bit better now that the big holiday is over with.

My husband took a big toll on my heart the 2008 holiday season and finding myself with a broken heart again the following year didn't do my confidence any good. In addition, finally filing for divorce this past November was the most difficult thing I ever had to do after 15 years of marriage...but it's something that HAD to be done.

He's now living out in California with the chick he'd been fooling around with. When he was home for a few months in September..I found that there were times I still wondered about my feelings for him, yet I was involved with what I thought was a wonderful man that made it much easier to finally file for divorce and move on with my life since I finally realized that the feelings for my hubby were more a comfort zone than anything else (sorta like an old comfortable holey pair of jeans..)

It was a tough one..filing for divorce and having to tell my hubby that I had. And then to have the guy that I was in what I thought I was in such a great relationship with all of a sudden basically dump me (while I found out later that it was all an excuse that he was taking his ex back...the truth was...he just didn't want to deal with the drama of my divorce..what a copout!!), well, it just threw me for a loop as I had feelings coming from all different directions and it really took a toll on my self esteem!!

I have my friends though and that's what's most important now. They've all been very supportive and have made it a lot easier to keep going.

I'm not in any position to date right now and my New Year's Resolution is to do more for myself and put ME first for once in my life!! Life's too short not to!!

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
How can I ever even want a relationship again	Confused925	11/21/09 12:32 AM
Re: How can I ever even want a relationship again	scboatman945	12/31/09 08:13 AM
Re: How can I ever even want a relationship again	Dogone	01/24/10 02:18 PM
Re: How can I ever even want a relationship again	timbuktu	11/25/09 07:34 PM
Re: How can I ever even want a relationship again	scboatman945	12/31/09 08:24 AM
Re: How can I ever even want a relationship again	1004SRS	11/26/09 05:42 AM
Re: How can I ever even want a relationship again	timbuktu	11/26/09 07:02 AM
Re: How can I ever even want a relationship again	Confused925	11/29/09 03:56 PM
Re: How can I ever even want a relationship again	AloneInTheDark	12/01/09 01:25 PM
Re: How can I ever even want a relationship again	timbuktu	12/26/09 11:06 AM
Re: How can I ever even want a relationship again	d2njti	11/25/09 11:44 PM
Re: How can I ever even want a relationship again	BeachBabeRN	11/21/09 06:58 AM

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