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Re: All about me...
01/13/10 09:24 PM
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I was divorced once, before I got remarried. My stbx knew about my ex and since we have children, knew their father will be in the picture. Stbx shared multiple times before marriage, that he will be respectful towards children's father and will be very open to have them have relationship with their father. But as soon as we got married, he changed his position, he was exreamly jalous, that children see their fahter regularly (according to schedule set by court). There was no win situation. If they stayed with us longer, he would get upset, how come their father doesn't take them, if they go, and come back, he wanted them to be very warm with him, which they couldn't it wasn't easy for them to switch gear, they were young children, so he blamed them and then me for their behaviour.
So if you want your wife in your life, you truly have to trun off that stupid insecure button in your brain and appreciate her in your life who completes you.
My stbx not too long ago started telling me oh I will leave him, since i am divorced once, like my being divorce suddenly became certificate for my disloyality towards him. I have spent many years trying to prove, his thinking is wrong, he is ruing a perfect marriage. But today I know it was his insecurity, he truly didn't know how to have a healthy relationship with a very normal woman. But he drove us towards disaster, finding one fault after another for one or other reason. Today I think his fear drove him towards that path, which finally split us.
You know your issues, please get some help, because even if your wife leaves you, you will in same place with another woman......
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