mommaof4
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Re: I am still in love with my ex
01/14/10 04:19 PM
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Can you join a church group? We had recently moved in August, so other than my job, I had no one here either. In the last 6 weeks, I have joined a church and go regularly with the kids. The even have gatherings during the week, or night services. Its a great way to meet new people, and make some friends. The first day I went, I was a MESS. Came in and knelt down to pray. I think I stayed that way for over an hour...when I sat up, a woman put her arms around me (surprised me!). But it was just what I needed. Now I talk to her a few times a week, and meet with her at church.
This will be my first weekend without the kids, so I am struggling too, as to what I should do, where i should go, how am i going to survive without my kids?! BUT, after all these awful things our exs have put us thru, and made us feel, WE need time to figure out who WE are again. I have to work on me for a long time before I can get over anything. Maybe that could help you....focus on YOU for now, and not him.
I hope I'm helping...I'm still in a very bad emotional/angry place too. I have highs and lows, good days bad days...and sometimes i am in NO control over which it will be LOL
Don't feel bad about feeling bad, it's part of the process!
S
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