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Re: feeling down and out
      01/21/10 01:29 PM

I'm new at this, so please bare with me. My husband left me and our kids. He left during a time where I was unemployed(still unemployed)our vehicle got repossed, I had to move in with a girlfriend and her family. My husband was talking about getting back together in December 09, when in fact I got served with divorce papers in January 2010, he filled back in November. Now he is talking about dropping the divorce, because he couldn't get physical custody of the kids. He is putting me on a emotional roller coaster. He has admitted to me that he has had affairs, and that hurts. Crazy as it sounds I still love him, but I'm torn as to what to do. Everything I did during the marriage was my fault, I pushed him to have affairs, according to him. My biggest complaint with him is his lack of communication skills. When I suggest counsiling, I'm the one with the problem not him. My head says divorce, but my heart is still in love. How do I get over this?? I spend most of my day online filling out job apps. I get up in the morning once I get the kids out I take a shower and put on clean pajamas. I'm constanly losing weight, I can't sleep.I try to be strong, and then sometimes I don't feel like being strong.How do you get of the emotional rollercoaster?? :confused:

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* feeling down and out AithneFireStorm 01/16/10 09:29 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out sterue   01/27/10 07:19 AM
. * * Re: feeling down and out myheart   01/27/10 06:35 PM
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. * * Re: feeling down and out VanajaGhose   02/02/10 07:07 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out isla   02/11/10 07:02 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out VanajaGhose   02/23/10 09:25 PM
. * * Ladies KiwiGirl   01/17/10 10:24 PM
. * * Re: Ladies AithneFireStorm   01/18/10 07:00 AM
. * * Re: feeling down and out NancyD   01/17/10 07:58 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out myheart   01/17/10 08:13 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out AithneFireStorm   01/17/10 09:55 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out NancyD   01/18/10 06:59 AM
. * * Re: feeling down and out BerdyB   01/16/10 10:12 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out isla   02/11/10 06:45 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out AithneFireStorm   01/16/10 10:45 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out Annie7676   01/17/10 08:42 AM
. * * Re: feeling down and out warrenwhite   01/21/10 01:29 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out myheart   01/21/10 05:39 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out warrenwhite   01/21/10 07:33 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out yregna   02/16/10 01:01 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out myheart   01/21/10 09:43 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out warrenwhite   01/22/10 02:33 AM
. * * Re: feeling down and out AithneFireStorm   01/17/10 09:32 AM
. * * Re: feeling down and out myheart   01/17/10 10:04 AM
. * * Re: feeling down and out Karen1   01/17/10 10:28 AM
. * * Re: feeling down and out BerdyB   01/17/10 10:50 AM
. * * Re: feeling down and out myheart   01/17/10 11:47 AM
. * * Re: feeling down and out cipsi52   02/11/10 03:56 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out isla   02/11/10 07:05 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out AithneFireStorm   01/20/10 06:47 AM
. * * Re: feeling down and out AithneFireStorm   01/17/10 07:54 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out bacall   01/18/10 10:48 AM
. * * Re: feeling down and out AithneFireStorm   01/18/10 04:33 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out Karen1   01/18/10 06:31 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out AithneFireStorm   01/18/10 07:11 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out myheart   01/18/10 10:38 PM
. * * Re: feeling down and out BerdyB   01/16/10 11:38 PM

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