Allan
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Re: Losing my best friend
01/24/10 05:58 PM
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Just an update, we went through our second marriage counseling session (and probably last with this counselor). We each had to fill out a worksheet (had to list our goals, values, etc.) and not surprising my wife and I had a very similiar list. And no we did not do the sheet togethor. According to the counselor she can tell me really love each other and bottom line its up to us if we want to stay togethor.. no duh. I have told her I will forgive her but she must drop this other guy.. which she says she has not spoken to him during this time of counseling. I still get the strong urges of being jealous. The main reason I have not left is because of the kids and I still love her and want to fix our problem.
She conitues to say that she is not feel intimate or sexually attractive to me. Other than that we are fine... I'm sure with my wife having an affair for last 3 yrs, her heart has strayed away from me.
So what do you think? Cut ties and divorce? Sexual counselor? How do you get over the jealous part? besides divorcing...
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