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Re: I need help
      03/04/10 07:40 AM

Give yourself some time first - there is a huge adjustment period after a divorce - with things to learn along the way. Change is hard work - you can use the pain as motivation to learn & grow, and it's not easy, but you can do it. It needs working through all the emotional stages - grief, pain, anger, fear, etc.

Try and keep yourself busy for now - go out with friends, take your little one out or invite her (his?) friends over - children bring us a lot of joy and can have a healing influence.

As for wanting him back - even if he does come back, and you take him back - what do you think the chances are of him not repeating the same thing?

Vanaja Ghose
Professional Life Coach

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* I need help stuckinthepast 02/26/10 09:10 PM
. * * Re: I need help VanajaGhose   03/04/10 07:40 AM
. * * Re: I need help NlightNlove   03/05/10 01:46 PM
. * * Re: I need help ConfusedDadNH   03/08/10 09:47 AM
. * * Re: I need help NlightNlove   03/10/10 09:31 AM
. * * Re: I need help myheart   03/11/10 02:12 AM
. * * Re: I need help KiwiGirl   03/08/10 11:55 AM
. * * Re: I need help yregna   03/08/10 02:28 PM
. * * You talking to me? KiwiGirl   03/09/10 07:20 PM
. * * Re: I need help english7   03/09/10 12:08 AM
. * * Re: I need help issabella   04/27/10 10:45 PM
. * * Re: I need help myheart   03/09/10 01:09 AM
. * * Re: I need help Debi   02/28/10 08:06 PM
. * * Quite frankly KiwiGirl   02/27/10 01:18 PM
. * * Re: I need help myheart   02/27/10 01:11 AM

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