VanajaGhose
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Reged: 11/14/09
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Loc: Ontario, Canada
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Re: I need help
03/04/10 07:40 AM
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Give yourself some time first - there is a huge adjustment period after a divorce - with things to learn along the way. Change is hard work - you can use the pain as motivation to learn & grow, and it's not easy, but you can do it. It needs working through all the emotional stages - grief, pain, anger, fear, etc.
Try and keep yourself busy for now - go out with friends, take your little one out or invite her (his?) friends over - children bring us a lot of joy and can have a healing influence.
As for wanting him back - even if he does come back, and you take him back - what do you think the chances are of him not repeating the same thing?
-------------------- Vanaja Ghose
Professional Life Coach
DivorcedToDazzling.com
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