fridaydog
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Last week my wife told me she's divorcing me
03/08/10 10:35 AM
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We've been married almost 4 years now and have 2 girls (3yo and 6 months) This is the third time we have split up and both time prior I fought hard for this marriage for us and the girls. This time when she said I said ok...I don't have the energy. If she comes back and says I want to work on things I'm on board, but she has to get there herself. Over the past week, I've been a disaster. Struggling immensly is an understatement. Only thing barely getting me by are my friends. I have calls every day to and from work, during lunch hours before bed. Constant email and texting. I try and do other things to focus on different things I know I should, but can't I want to lie in bed in fetal position. I find myself on a constant roller coaster. One min. I'm strong I'm meeting with my lawyer I'm preparing the next I'm trying to talk to my wife saying she confused let's take some time to figure things out. When I do that I obviously fall into rut. As I type this my wife is texting me about exchanging lawyer information. I'm a mess...I feel bad for myself, I feel bad for my girls. I recognize I need help. I have a therapy session tomorrow night...I've found divorce support groups that I may start attending. I'm on this site. I just don't know if I can go through with this. I know it'll get harder before it'll get better and thats what kills me. I took my 3 yo daughter to a bday party and at times got emotional and started getting teary eyed thinking about her future. I barely eat. I wake up at the crack of dawn and drive around and find place I can smoke cigarettes. I'm struggling immensly and don't know what to do. Please any thoughts/questions would hep. Thanks
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