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Curt551
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Reged: 03/23/10
Posts: 82

Re: restlessness...

03/30/10 10:34 PM

Thanks Kris,

I'm just being really honest trying to figure this out. I do want a deeper friendship with a woman but I don't want that to suddenly turn into being captured or feeling captured. I would love to have the total relationship. My experience thus far is either no interest or lets get married next week. There has to be some middle ground lol.

I think your statement about allot of men coming off to women as not knowing what they want as a valid observation. I think part of it for me isn't so much that I don't want to be obligated in "any way", its more that I don't want more read into the friendship than what is experienced in those mystical moments or have expectations formed without both parties agreeing to those expectations. I probably should have explained that a friendship to me means I already have accepted some responsibilities to provide support. I don't like the quick claim that seems to happen in relationships though.

Related to your question about guys and spiritual things. Guys can enjoy spiritual times together but it's definitely not, in my experience, the same as with a woman.

Again, it seems like all or nothing out there...

Thanks for taking the time to comment Kris, I appreciate it.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
restlessness...	Curt551	03/30/10 12:00 AM
Re: restlessness...	Atlas	03/31/10 06:44 PM
Re: restlessness...	finz	04/01/10 04:52 AM
Re: restlessness...	Curt551	04/06/10 02:45 AM
Re: restlessness...	bacall	04/12/10 02:47 PM
Re: restlessness...	Curt551	05/05/10 12:37 AM
Re: restlessness...	Debi	04/06/10 07:29 PM
Re: restlessness...	Curt551	04/06/10 10:05 PM
Re: restlessness...	Debi	04/07/10 07:29 PM
Re: restlessness...	Curt551	04/10/10 04:52 AM
Re: restlessness...	Debi	04/11/10 05:53 PM
Re: restlessness...	Kris10Kinn	03/30/10 10:45 AM
Re: restlessness...	Curt551	03/30/10 10:34 PM
Re: restlessness...	bacall	03/31/10 08:42 AM
Re: restlessness...	1004SRS	03/31/10 06:04 AM

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