frantic1infl
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just questions
04/03/10 09:53 AM
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ok let me start out by saying I love my husband, divorce is the last thing I want but if he files I do not want to be such an emotional wreck that I sign whatever he ask me to.
He bought his house in 99 I moved in the latter part of 03 have been married since Feb 04. We never had my name put on the deed or title or what ever it is called. He always told me we did not have to because we were never getting a divorce and if we did put my name on it we would have to have it repraised and at the time it was appraised for quite a bit because of the housing boom here in fl. He did have a will drawn up that I get everything and I have power of attorney if something medically happens to him. Ok maybe stupid of me I'll admit. The car I drive is in his name but I know he would let me keep it. I am praying and hoping it does not come to this we our going to counseling but he went home to see his ailing parents. He did not ask me to go because one it is not a good situation things are strained between them and have been for years, plus I hate to fly and he knows that well he has been gone 14 days the first week he stopped off in seattle to see his daughter and text me every nite and called me. Since he has been at his parents he has not emailed, called or texted me. I called him, text and emailed him. Finally had to call his daughter to see if he was okay and had made it to HI. She said yes he texted me if I hear from him I will send him your way. Ten minutes later he text me saying he was fine, no I love, no see you soon nothing. I will also say I work full time and our medical is covered through my work, we have joint checking he handles all the bills because he does in online and he is better at it. I am just saying all that because I want everyone to know I do contribute finacially. He is retired and his pensions go for the house payment my check covers everything else. Money and the power issues that some times go with it have never been an issue. I am lousy with money and we both know it. I do not even have access to the one credit card we have it is for emergencies only and I do mean emergencies. LOL This is my first marriage not his and we have no children together just a cat, I am 50 he is 60.
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