bacall
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Re: Have to ask this...
05/10/10 01:48 PM
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Dear Euro,
Yes, what you mention is something that strikes me all the time now. As others have mentioned, when there are "two," whether you have the best marriage or the one that falls apart, there is a dialogue, at least some of the time. Left alone with your own thoughts for huge chunks of time, no matter how much you fill your life with other people, pets or things to do, makes your mind react with itself, rather than having another to discuss matters with. This can be pretty detrimental to good mental health, I firmly believe. I guess the goal is to find a balance for ourselves, in our own heads, and hearts and souls, and then go out from there. That is a much, much easier said than done philosophy, but I guess there is no plan B -- that is the only one open to us.
Thanks for your comments. I have found that it is comforting (not the misery loves company theory) to know that others understand the pain; we can't necessarily "fix" it for one another, but we can encourage each other on the way to what I hope will be better futures for all of us.
Take care, bacall
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