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applejuice
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Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids

06/11/10 04:01 PM

I sincerely believe a comment like "GROW up" is completely unnecessary and is truly the opposite of constructive criticism. I could be handling this like most people in their early twenties; with poor communication and the potential for violence. However I try to keep my words constructive and communicate with I statements (even though that seems to still make her mad). This IS my home; not only is it my place of dwelling it is also my house in a legal sense.

1) I do understand that I did not MAKE her move out, however in every split up it takes two to tango. It just so happens that I get really confused; she blames me for everything and says it is my fault. I was looking for some mental clarification; not criticism.

2) My concern is that if I get home tonight and say "get out!" that this will reflect negatively upon myself when this is brought in front of a judge. Like I have said there are no papers filed. We are completely married. It is not very kosher to kick your legal wife to the curb and it is definitely not conducive to A) keeping this situation friendly and B) Being successful when this goes to court.

As a User has previously posted:

"It is a woman's right to leave the marriage whenever she wants, and you'll have to pay her to do it...
Didn't you see that in the fine print when you signed up? Men take responsibility, not women..."

Not being sexist here, but how do I get her out of the house without giving her another weapon? I currently have nothing but my word...he said / she said. That won't mean a thing to the judge.

To make a completely improper analogy; I have two testicles, I know how to use them. However, how do I apply this to my particular situation without getting them squished in the future?

Pardon me...

Any thoughts from anyone will be appreciated.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	06/02/10 01:53 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	08/30/10 11:08 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	Avaya	06/10/10 08:46 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	06/10/10 09:09 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	Avaya	06/10/10 10:07 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	06/10/10 12:38 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	Avaya	06/10/10 01:14 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	06/11/10 01:05 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	Annie7676	06/12/10 10:46 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	06/14/10 10:44 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	06/16/10 10:31 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	Avaya	06/16/10 10:44 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	06/16/10 11:24 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	1004SRS	06/18/10 12:09 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	06/21/10 03:06 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	Avaya	06/22/10 12:00 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	06/24/10 10:55 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	1004SRS	06/24/10 09:39 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	1004SRS	06/25/10 06:40 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	Annie7676	06/24/10 04:33 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	Avaya	06/25/10 09:17 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	06/30/10 10:58 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	07/07/10 10:28 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	1004SRS	07/08/10 06:29 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	1004SRS	06/21/10 07:56 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	BeachBabeRN	06/16/10 07:29 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	06/17/10 09:41 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	1004SRS	06/17/10 07:18 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	Avaya	06/11/10 01:47 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	06/11/10 04:01 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	1004SRS	06/11/10 07:15 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	1004SRS	06/06/10 01:45 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	06/07/10 04:12 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	1004SRS	06/07/10 07:11 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	06/10/10 07:47 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	mguy	06/07/10 09:35 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	Annie7676	06/02/10 07:42 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	06/03/10 08:59 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	Debi	06/06/10 08:43 AM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	yregna	06/03/10 05:12 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	applejuice	06/04/10 01:32 PM
Re: Cheating Wife + Two Kids	finz	06/06/10 01:33 AM

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