javajunkiee
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Re: Java Junkie as a man...
07/31/10 02:17 PM
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"In any case, I'm certainly not saying its easy to walk away from a marriage because of different goals. Its not - its horrible and its hard and it sucks. But eventually it comes down to what a person is willing to accept in their life, and if you're willing to accept something despite it not being what you truly want, I don't think its right to cry foul later. "
I never said it was easy. Its not. The simple fact is though we all have choices. You chose to act like a victim, when really, you were a VOLUNTEER.
When she reneged, and you quit your job, and you played the games you played, you set yourself up to be miserable. You did that because you thought eventually you'd "win" and get your way.
Unfortunately, by not sticking to what your own goals were, you screwed yourself worse than anything your ex-wife or the courts could've done to you. Rebuilding was a given - it is with any divorce - but the emotional toll its taken on you.... thats all on you.
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