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Debi
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Re: My ex's husband is forcing cs wtf?

08/12/10 08:20 PM

It's nice that she's worked with you so far but that's not usually reality. You say that you're willing to pay for anything but why should she have to ASK for it?Being that you're unemployed they may imput your wages at minnimum wage, which won't amount to a lot.

You're right none of the things that you mentioned matter in a CS case. They are concerned only with the dollars and cents. His income doesn't count because it's not his responsibility to support the kids. That job belongs to the parents. If she's not working and he chooses to take up her responsibility that's his choice. He isn't going to agree to take on yours.

As for custody, unless you have hard proof and the incident with the car isn't going to get you far it's a no go at this point. I would guess the other incidents weren't reported by anyone since he is still in the military and you don't mention him having been disciplined for it (which he definitely would have been!) Plus if you aren't ready to take that route I'd have to guess you don't believe it was as bad as that because I couldn't see any decent parent who believes someone has waved a gun in their childs face wouldn't do everything possible to get the kids away from that person.

Sorry but everything you've mentioned points to her winning a CS case. There really is no reason for you not to pay and if there is no CO now then anything you HAVE paid is considered a gift.

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My ex's husband is forcing cs wtf?	mattsthru	08/12/10 05:44 AM
Re: My ex's husband is forcing cs wtf?	Debi	08/12/10 08:20 PM
Re: My ex's husband is forcing cs wtf?	mattsthru	08/14/10 11:43 AM
Re: My ex's husband is forcing cs wtf?	mattsthru	08/14/10 12:06 PM
Re: My ex's husband is forcing cs wtf?	DeeCan	08/14/10 01:46 PM
Re: My ex's husband is forcing cs wtf?	Debi	08/14/10 03:08 PM
Re: My ex's husband is forcing cs wtf?	mattsthru	08/15/10 04:49 AM
Re: My ex's husband is forcing cs wtf?	Debi	08/15/10 01:12 PM
Re: My ex's husband is forcing cs wtf?	Goodmom	08/15/10 09:17 AM
Re: My ex's husband is forcing cs wtf?	DeeCan	08/15/10 09:11 AM
Re: My ex's husband is forcing cs wtf?	Redlegg	08/15/10 04:53 AM
Re: My ex's husband is forcing cs wtf?	javajunkiee	08/14/10 12:28 PM
Re: My ex's husband is forcing cs wtf?	MrsB	08/12/10 06:44 AM

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